{"id":2840,"date":"2022-10-15T15:13:02","date_gmt":"2022-10-15T20:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/luke-1511-32-jesus-tells-about-a-father-wigmore-bible-study\/"},"modified":"2022-10-15T15:13:02","modified_gmt":"2022-10-15T20:13:02","slug":"luke-1511-32-jesus-tells-about-a-father-wigmore-bible-study","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/luke-1511-32-jesus-tells-about-a-father-wigmore-bible-study\/","title":{"rendered":"Luke 15:11-32 Jesus Tells about a Father (Wigmore) &#8211; Bible study"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sermon Luke 15:11b-32 Jesus Tells about a Father <\/p>\n<p>By Fr. Bill Wigmore<\/p>\n<p>Well once again, welcome to the service  &amp; Happy Father&#8217;s Day to all the dads here &#8211; <em>how&#8217;re we doing tonight?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sometime back, I came a cross one of those <em>top ten lists<\/em><br \/> that David Letterman reads on The Late Show.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>This one was called:<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<em>The Top-Ten Things You&#8217;ll Never Hear a Dad Say<\/em>&#8220;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And I figured, since this is Father&#8217;s Day,<br \/> it might be a good night to read it. <em>So here we go<\/em>:<br \/> Ten things you never heard come out of your father&#8217;s mouth:<\/p>\n<p>Number 10 &#8220;Well, how &#8217;bout that! &#8230; <em>I&#8217;m lost!<\/em>  Looks like we&#8217;ll<br \/> have to stop and ask for directions.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Number 9 &#8220;You know Pumpkin, now that you&#8217;re thirteen, you&#8217;ll be<br \/> <em>ready for un-chaperoned car dates. Won&#8217;t that be fun?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Number 8 &#8220;I noticed that all your friends seem to have a certain<br \/> &#8220;up yours&#8221; attitude&#8221; &#8230; <em>I really like that!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Number 7 <em>&#8220;<\/em>Here&#8217;s a credit card and the keys to my new car <br \/> <em> GO CRAZY!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Number 6 &#8220;What do you mean you wanna play football?<br \/> <em>Figure skating&#8217;s not good enough for you, son?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Number 5 &#8220;Your Mother and I are going away for the weekend &#8230;<br \/> <em>you might want to consider throwing a party.&#8221;<br \/> <\/em><br \/> Number 4 &#8220;Well, I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s wrong with your car.<br \/> Probably one of those doo-hickey thingies  you<br \/> know &#8212; that makes it run or something. <em>Just have it towed to a <\/em><br \/> <em>mechanic and pay whatever he asks.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Number 3 &#8220;Now Listen! No son of mine is going to live under this<br \/> roof withoutan earring  <em>so quit your belly-aching, and let&#8217;s go to themall!&#8221;<br \/> <\/em><br \/> Number 2 &#8220;<em>Whaddya wanna go and get a job for? <\/em><br \/> <em>I make plenty of money for you to spend!&#8221;<br \/> <\/em><br \/> <em>And the <\/em>Number 1 thing you never heard your father say:<br \/> &#8220;<em>Would you mind turning that music up a bit!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Father&#8217;s Day can bring up memories &amp; feelings for all of us <\/p>\n<p>And for those of us who grew up in homes touched by alcoholism or drug addiction, the memories aren&#8217;t always happy.<\/p>\n<p>I know a priest who served for many years as the chaplain in a very large state prison.<br \/> And he tells the story of how, during <em>his very first year there:<\/em><br \/> when Mother&#8217;s Day arrived in early May,<br \/> he was overwhelmed with requests from the prisoners for<br \/> Mother&#8217;s Day cards for the men to send home.<br \/> He gave out <em>boxes and boxes of em<\/em>  but he never seemed<br \/> to have enough to meet all the demand.<\/p>\n<p>And so the priest said to himself  <em>next time, <\/em>he wasn&#8217;t going to be<br \/> caught short <br \/> and so the very next month, when Father&#8217;s Day rolled around,<br \/> he&#8217;d stocked up with plenty of cards <br \/> but he was shocked at what happened next <br \/> <em>almost none of the men asked for them. <\/em><br \/> <em>This time h<\/em>e was left with boxes and boxes of unused cards.<\/p>\n<p>When he asked one of the other chaplains why nobody wanted the cards the guy said:<br \/> <em>&#8220;Welcome to prison! <\/em>Most of these men never knew their fathers<br \/> and a lot of the ones who do would just as soon forget em.&#8221;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Father&#8217;s Day can bring up <em>memories &amp; feelings<\/em> that many of us would just as soon forget.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I&#8217;ve spoken about the problems I had with my own father.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>He was a bad alcoholic who had the added problem of often getting violent when he got drunk.<\/li>\n<li>I was on the receiving end of a lot of that when I was growing up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>My experience of <em>what a father is<\/em> &#8211; wasn&#8217;t good.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>A father wasn&#8217;t safe  a father wasn&#8217;t to be trusted <\/li>\n<li>And like the kid in tonight&#8217;s gospel, I couldn&#8217;t wait to get away from home &#8211; <em>and I planned to never go back.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Now tonight&#8217;s gospel story is one that we read here at the service <em>two or three times each year. <\/em>We read it<em>so often <\/em>because <em>if there&#8217;s one story in all of scripture<\/em> that I wish we addicts could each hear, and really take in <em>and let it change us,  <\/em>then this is the one.<\/p>\n<p>And maybe it&#8217;s especially important for those of us who&#8217;ve had <em>our &#8220;God-images&#8221;<\/em> damaged by our pasts;<br \/> because <em>this Father<\/em> that Jesus describes is so unlike any we knew growing up.<\/p>\n<p>Now Jesus tells this story because he&#8217;s being asked by the<br \/> righteous, church-going people in his town:<br \/> <em>Why&#8217;s he hanging out with the ones they consider <\/em><br \/> <em>all the lowlife scum in their community?<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Why&#8217;s he <\/em>paling around<em> with prostitutes and <\/em>talking it up<em> with tax traitors<\/em> <\/li>\n<li>Why&#8217;s he <em>healing lepers<\/em> and <em>helping out all the so-called losers <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>What&#8217;s the deal, Jesus? You&#8217;re supposed to be a holy man  a prophet  don&#8217;t you know who these people are?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And so it&#8217;s in this context that Jesus tells them this story.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s Jesus explaining to the church people of his day what he&#8217;s doing &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>because what he was doing,<br \/> wasn&#8217;t what any of them were doing.<\/p>\n<p><em>But, according to Jesus,<\/em> what he&#8217;s doing is exactly what <em>the God of his understanding<\/em> is always doing<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>He&#8217;s loving his kids &#8212;- &#8220;unconditionally.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>He&#8217;s loving em in ways that absolutely blow away all their <em>old ideas<\/em> about <em>who God is<\/em> and <em>how God works<\/em> in our lives.<\/li>\n<li>The Big Book says, &#8220;<em>Many of us tried to hold on to our old ideas and the results were nil until we let em go absolutely.&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<li>In his story tonight, Jesus is saying: we&#8217;ve got some old ideas about God,<\/li>\n<li>and he wants to open our eyes and help us see a very different image of the God he knew so well.<\/li>\n<li>Jesus called his God, his Abba  and that translates as his Papa or his Daddy<em>.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>The holy people were all shocked <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>and if I&#8217;ve learned anything from staying sober all my years it&#8217;s this:<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>If the God of Jesus doesn&#8217;t come to me as a total shock  then I haven&#8217;t heard what Jesus really said  and I&#8217;m still stuck in some of my OLD IDEAS.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When you came into the service tonight, I hope everyone received a little card.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>That card<\/em>&#8216;s part of a painting, &#8220;The Return of the Prodigal Son,&#8221; done almost four hundred years ago by Rembrandt, the artist.<\/li>\n<li>(NOTE: To see the picture, go to:<\/li>\n<li>http:\/\/www.rembrandtpainting.net\/rembrandt%27s_prodigal_son.html<\/li>\n<li>or Google &#8220;Rembrandt, The Return of the Prodigal Son.&#8221;)<\/li>\n<li>It&#8217;s considered one of his greatest works and it&#8217;s the one we keep here under the altar.<\/li>\n<li>The painting is the artist&#8217;s understanding of this gospel scene where the prodigal son finally comes to his senses and returns to his father.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Now I don&#8217;t know if you can see it on the small card  <em>probably not <\/em> but there are two things about the father that the artist painted into the scene that most people can very easily miss.<\/p>\n<p>The first has to do with the way he&#8217;s painted the father&#8217;s eyes <br \/> <em>because according to this artist,<\/em> the father is <em>blind.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In Rembrandt&#8217;s imagination  the father doesn&#8217;t even have eyes to<br \/> see <em>any or all<\/em> of the terrible things that his son has done to him.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>All this father does <em>is: Love!<\/em><\/li>\n<li>He loves his son when he spits in his face by asking for his inheritance.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>(See, you don&#8217;t get your inheritance until your father&#8217;s dead <br \/> <em>&#8220;Drop dead!&#8221; <\/em>is what his son was saying.<br \/> <em>&#8220;Drop dead, Dad, so I can get what&#8217;s then legally coming to me!)<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>But this father is blind to that <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>He&#8217;s blind to the insult  He simply <em>keeps on loving<\/em> &#8211; and instead of giving him the back of his hand  he gives the boy exactly what he asks for.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>And, just like so many of us, the kid takes the money and goes right out and blows it <\/li>\n<li>He probably took it to a crack house  cause that money was gone in a hurry!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>(So the kid winds up living with the pigs .. and we all have our pig stories!)<\/p>\n<p>But, being a little con artist that he is,<br \/> this kid is still trying to manipulate his old man.<br \/> <em>&#8220;I&#8217;ve got a plan!&#8221; <\/em>he says, <em>&#8220;I&#8217;ll tell my father that I don&#8217;t deserve to be called his son<\/em> <br \/> <em>I&#8217;ll play on his mercy  I&#8217;ll ask him to take me in and treat me like one of his servants.<\/em><br \/> <em>At least I&#8217;ll get myself: three hots and a cot.&#8221; (Been there &amp; done that!)<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>But the old man seems blind to that too.<\/li>\n<li>(Maybe Love <em>really is blind!)<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>All this <em>loving father<\/em> can do is throw his arms around his son <br \/> And instead of treating him like a servant (which was his plan)<br \/> he treats him like royalty (which is God&#8217;s plan!)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>He puts rings on his fingers and a robe on his back,<\/li>\n<li>He showers him with kisses <em>and presses him close to his heart<\/em>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And there&#8217;s something else about this painting<br \/> that&#8217;s <em>puzzled people<\/em> for centuries.<br \/> It&#8217;s the way the artist depicts the father&#8217;s two hands.<br \/> Hands that are holding on to this wayward son.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason Rembrandt&#8217;s painted each of the father&#8217;s <em>hands <\/em>very differently <br \/> One hand is very clearly the hand of a man <br \/> And the other is just as clearly, the hand of a woman.<\/p>\n<p>Rembrandt&#8217;s saying something very powerful here about <em>the God of his understanding &#8211; <\/em>and about <em>how it is<\/em>that God loves us.<\/p>\n<p>He seems to be saying that God loves us both as a father loves and as a mother loves too.<\/p>\n<p>This father is strong  <em>and that&#8217;s the male hand that&#8217;s supporting his son <\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It&#8217;s holding him up so he doesn&#8217;t fall again <\/li>\n<li>It&#8217;s the hand that&#8217;s encouraging him and blessing him.<\/li>\n<li>He&#8217;s passing on his energy to the next generation <em>so this son<\/em> <em>of his<\/em> will be strong enough <em>some day<\/em>to pass it on to his son too.<\/li>\n<li>If we missed receiving these things from our fathers  the good news is: it&#8217;s never too late to get them. God makes that possible. And maybe the bigger the Father hole&#8217; we have inside our souls  the more open we&#8217;ll be to letting God come and fill it, and the more grateful we&#8217;ll be to receive it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>But with the other hand,<\/em> while all of this is going on,<br \/> then with his other hand, <em>with his female side<\/em> <br \/> this father&#8217;s also gently hugging his son&#8217;s neck <br \/> He&#8217;s embracing him, much as <em>a mother would hug<\/em> her<br \/> child.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>This father isn&#8217;t afraid to show love.<\/li>\n<li>He&#8217;s not afraid to make himself vulnerable <\/li>\n<li>He isn&#8217;t afraid to cry or <em>to open his heart.<\/em><\/li>\n<li>We need that from our fathers  and we need it from our God too!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The scriptures tell us that we&#8217;re each wonderfully made.<br \/> They say we&#8217;re made in the very image and likeness of God <br \/> And because we reflect him <em>and who he is,<\/em><br \/> then God must be male and God must be female too <\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>So we have a God who is both strong and tender<\/li>\n<li>A God who&#8217;s full of power and might<\/li>\n<li>but one who&#8217;s also full of love and compassion.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If our God is only one and not the other,<br \/> then we&#8217;re still holding on to our old ideas<br \/> and we&#8217;re missing out on the Real Thing.<\/p>\n<p>I want to close now with another list I came across not too long ago.<br \/> It&#8217;s a collection of scripture passages that were put together to make up an imaginary Father&#8217;s Day card<em>from our God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Someone gathered up <em>one liners<\/em> from the Old and the<br \/> New Testament and strung em all together.<\/p>\n<p>And if you&#8217;ll listen to them carefully,<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I think you&#8217;ll hear the two sides of God that Rembrandt saw.<\/li>\n<li>Maybe it&#8217;s a unisex card <em>that priest<\/em> <em>in prison<\/em> could use on Mother&#8217;s Day and on Father&#8217;s Day too.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>It reads like this:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>MY CHILD . . . <\/em><\/p>\n<p>You may not know me, but I know everything about you. Psalm 139:1<br \/> I know when you sit down and when you rise up. Psalm 139:2<br \/> I am familiar with all your ways. Psalm 139:3<br \/> Even the very hairs on your head I&#8217;ve numbered. Matthew 10:29-31<br \/> For you were made in my own image. Genesis 1:27<br \/> In me you live and move and have your being. Acts 17:28<\/p>\n<p>You are my child. Acts 17:28<\/p>\n<p>I knew you even before you were conceived. Jeremiah 1:4-5<br \/> I chose you when I planned creation. Ephesians 1:11-12<br \/> You were not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book. Psalm 139:15-16<br \/> I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live. Acts 17:26<\/p>\n<p>I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4<br \/> When you are brokenhearted, I am close to you. Psalm 34:18<br \/> As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart. Isaiah 40:11<br \/> One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes. Revelation 21:3-4<br \/> And I&#8217;ll take away all the pain you have suffered on this earth. Revelation 21:3-4<br \/> I am your Father, and I love you even as I love my son Jesus. John 17:23<\/p>\n<p>Come home and I&#8217;ll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen. Luke 15:7<br \/> I have always been Father, and will always be Father. Ephesians 3:14-15<br \/> My question isWill you be my child? John 1:12-13<br \/> I am waiting for you. Luke 15:11-32<br \/> Come home. Luke 15: 7<\/p>\n<p><em>Signed:<\/em><br \/> With Love Everlasting <br \/> <em>Your Dad<\/em>,<\/p>\n<p><em>Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Copyright 2009, Bill Wigmore. Used by permission.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sermon Luke 15:11b-32 Jesus Tells about a Father By Fr. Bill Wigmore Well once again, welcome to the service &amp; Happy Father&#8217;s Day to all the dads here &#8211; how&#8217;re we doing tonight? Sometime back, I came a cross one of those top ten lists that David Letterman reads on The Late Show. This one &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/luke-1511-32-jesus-tells-about-a-father-wigmore-bible-study\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Luke 15:11-32 Jesus Tells about a Father (Wigmore) &#8211; Bible study&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2840","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2840"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2840\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}