\u00bfC\u00f3mo manejas los conflictos?<\/p>\n
Algunas lecciones que aprendes de la manera dif\u00edcil en la vida y el liderazgo.<\/p>\n
Tome como ejemplo un principio reciente que publiqu\u00e9 sobre los atributos de un l\u00edder maduro. Compart\u00ed que un l\u00edder maduro ha aprendido a nunca responder inmediatamente con ira. Poco despu\u00e9s de que se publicara la publicaci\u00f3n, me entrevistaron al respecto para un podcast de liderazgo<\/strong>. Me preguntaron c\u00f3mo aprend\u00ed eso.<\/p>\n Bueno, la mayor\u00eda de las veces aprendes esas cosas por respondiendo con ira<\/strong> y arrepinti\u00e9ndose despu\u00e9s. Y esto me ha pasado varias veces. Una vez solt\u00e9 enojado a un buen empleado, por ejemplo. Desde entonces me he arrepentido.<\/p>\n Hace muchos a\u00f1os, sin embargo, fui condenado por las Escrituras<\/strong>. (\u00bfNo es esto lo que se supone que deben hacer las Escrituras?)<\/p>\n Le\u00ed un pasaje que hab\u00eda le\u00eddo muchas veces, pero vi algo esta vez en particular que no hab\u00eda notado previamente. Termin\u00f3 respondiendo directamente a la pregunta, “\u00bfC\u00f3mo maneja el conflicto?”<\/p>\n Vea si lo capta en este John \u202d2:13-16\u00a0passage:<\/strong> Did you catch it? Did you see the powerful leadership<\/strong> principle about responding in anger?<\/p>\n Yes? If so then you were convicted too most likely.<\/p>\n It\u2019s huge. It will change the way you deal with people in tense or confrontational environments.<\/p>\n If you didn\u2019t catch it, read it one more time. This time the emphasis is mine.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe Jewish Passover<\/strong> was near, so Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple complex He found people selling oxen, sheep and doves, and He also found the money changers sitting there. After making a whip out of cords, He drove everyone out of the temple complex with their sheep and oxen. He also poured out the money changers\u2019 coins and overturned the tables. He told those who were selling doves, ‘Get these things out of here! Stop turning My Father\u2019s house into a marketplace!’\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p>\n Make sense now? He made a whip. Before Jesus cleared out the temple\u2014He made a whip. Handcrafted whip.<\/p>\n Have you ever made a whip out of cords\u2014a whip strong enough to drive out people bent on making money through unrighteous means?<\/p>\n I have to be honest. I never have made a whip in my life. I don\u2019t know how long it took to make whips in Jesus days, but it certainly wasn\u2019t instantaneous.<\/p>\n There was time for reflection. Time to think. Time to process. Time to make a plan. Time to pray<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Suddenly the scene I had in my head of Jesus seeing the activity in the temple and going wild with anger was not the same.<\/p>\n I can picture Jesus sitting on the steps of the temple, talking to His Father. (The Scripture says He did nothing except what the Father told Him.)<\/p>\n Maybe the dialogue went something like this:<\/p>\n God, how do you want me to respond to this?<\/p>\n They are in the temple, money-changing. I know how You feel about that. It\u2019s Your house. It\u2019s supposed to be a House of Prayer.<\/p>\n What should I do? How serious should I take this?<\/p>\n (Twisting the leather a little tighter.)<\/p>\n You know, God, they are going to be writing about this for a very long time. This scene may even appear in the movies someday.\u00a0<\/p>\n Help me know how to respond.\u00a0<\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t a rash decision. It wasn\u2019t unrehearsed. He didn\u2019t respond purely out of emotion.<\/p>\n To me it has the appearance of being a very calculated, methodical, strategic move.<\/p>\n Over the years of leadership<\/strong>, since I realized how Jesus actually cleared the temple and facing lots of critics and conflicts of my own, I\u2019ve made a lot of figurative whips. Perhaps someday I\u2019ll even make a real one\u2014and hang it on my wall. I\u2019ve taken time before responding to think, process, develop a plan. And, all this in the spirit of prayer.<\/p>\n In the process\u2014of being more calculated, methodical and strategic<\/strong>\u2014it\u2019s made me a better leader. It\u2019s helped me respond better.<\/p>\n And, here\u2019s the other thing I discovered. Often, once I\u2019ve made the figurative whip\u2014I didn\u2019t need to actually use it. In fact, and here\u2019s the real life lesson, sometimes the process led me to understand I was the one who was wrong. Ouch!<\/p>\n So how do you handle conflict? When you\u2019re facing conflict in life and leadership\u2014when you\u2019re angry\u2014take time to make a whip. It changes everything.<\/p>\n \u202c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00bfC\u00f3mo manejas los conflictos? Algunas lecciones que aprendes de la manera dif\u00edcil en la vida y el liderazgo. Tome como ejemplo un principio reciente que publiqu\u00e9 sobre los atributos de un l\u00edder maduro. Compart\u00ed que un l\u00edder maduro ha aprendido a nunca responder inmediatamente con ira. 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\u201cThe Jewish Passover was near, so Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple complex He found people selling oxen, sheep and doves, and He also found the money changers sitting there. After making a whip out of cords, He drove everyone out of the temple complex with their sheep and oxen. He also poured out the money changers\u2019 coins and overturned the tables. He told those who were selling doves, ‘Get these things out of here! Stop turning My Father\u2019s house into a marketplace!’\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n