Ways to Get Along Better<\/b><\/p>\n
1. Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three questions: 1) is it true? 2) is it kind? 3) is it necessary?<\/p>\n
2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully.<\/p>\n
3. Never miss an opportunity to compliment or say something encouraging.<\/p>\n
4. Refuse to talk negatively about others and don\u2019t listen when others do.<\/p>\n
5. Have a forgiving view of people. Believe that most people are doing the best they can.<\/p>\n
6. Keep an open mind; discuss, don\u2019t argue.<\/p>\n
7. Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1,000 before saying or doing anything that could make matters worse.<\/p>\n
8. Let your virtues speak for themselves.<\/p>\n
9. If someone criticizes you, see if there is any truth to what he is saying; if so, make changes.<\/p>\n
10. Cultivate your sense of humor.<\/p>\n
11. \u201cDo not seek so much to be consoled, as to console; do not seek so much to be understood as to understand; do not seek so much to be loved as to love.\u201d<\/p>\n
Hope Healthletter, Vol. 46, No. 1, Men\u2019s Life Lifeline (newsletter), (Grand Rapids, Fall, 1995)<\/p>\n
Social Ties<\/b><\/p>\n
Leonard Syme, a professor of epidemiology at the University of California at Berkeley, indicates the importance of social ties and social support systems in relationship to mortality and disease rates. He points to Japan as being number one in the world with respect to health and then discusses the close social, cultural, and traditional ties in that country as the reason. He believes that the more social ties, the better the health and the lower the death rate. Conversely, he indicates that the more isolated the person, the poorer the health and the higher the death rate. Social ties are good preventative medicine for physical problems and for mental-emotional-behavior problems.<\/p>\n
Martin & Diedre Bobgan, How To Counsel From Scripture, Moody Press, 1985, p. 18<\/p>\n
Theory of Relativity<\/b><\/p>\n
If you think your family has problems, consider the marriage mayhem created when 76-year-old Bill Baker of London recently wed Edna Harvey. She happened to be his granddaughter\u2019s husband\u2019s mother. That\u2019s where the confusion began, according to Baker\u2019s granddaughter, Lynn.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy mother-in-law is now my step-grandmother. My grandfather is now my stepfather-in-law. My mom is my sister-in-law and my brother is my nephew. But even crazier is that I\u2019m now married to my uncle and my own children are my cousins.\u201d<\/p>\n
From this experience, Lynn should gain profound insight into the theory of relativity.<\/p>\n
Campus Life, March, 1981, p. 31<\/p>\n
We Need Each Other<\/b><\/p>\n
We can live only in relationships. We need each other. A rather crude and cruel experiment was carried out by Emperor Frederick, who ruled the Roman Empire in the thirteenth century. He wanted to know what man\u2019s original language was: Hebrew, Greek, or Latin?<\/p>\n
He decided to isolate a few infants from the sound of the human voice. He reasoned that they would eventually speak the natural tongue of man. Wet nurses who were sworn to absolute silence were obtained, and though it was difficult for them, they abided by the rule. The infants never heard a word\u2014not a sound from a human voice. Within several months they were all dead.<\/p>\n
Joe E. Trull<\/p>\n
Getting Along With People<\/b><\/p>\n
The Carnegie Technological Institute has stated that 90% of all people who fail in their life\u2019s vocation fail because they cannot get along with people.<\/p>\n
Gettin the Church on Target, Lloyd Perry, Moody, 1977<\/p>\n
Most Important Words for Getting Along With People<\/b><\/p>\n
The SIX most important words: \u201cI admit I made a mistake.\u201d The FIVE most important words: \u201cYou did a good job.\u201d The FOUR most important words: \u201cWhat do you think?\u201d The THREE most important words: \u201cAfter you, please.\u201d The TWO most important words: \u201cThank you.\u201d The ONE most important word: \u201cWe\u201d The LEAST important word: \u201cI\u201d<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Ten Commandments of Human Relations<\/b><\/p>\n
1. Speak to people. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.<\/p>\n
2. Smile at people. It takes seventy-two muscles to frown, only fourteen to smile.<\/p>\n
3. Call people by name. Music to anyone\u2019s ears is the sound of his\/her own name.<\/p>\n
4. Be friendly and helpful.<\/p>\n
5. Be cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do is genuinely a pleasure, and if it isn\u2019t, learn to make it so.<\/p>\n
6. Be genuinely interested in people. You can like almost everybody if you try.<\/p>\n
7. Be generous with praise, cautious with criticism.<\/p>\n
8. Be considerate with the feelings of others. There are usually three sides to a controversy: yours, the other fellow\u2019s, and the right one.<\/p>\n
9. Be alert to serve. What counts most in life is what we do for others.<\/p>\n
10. Add to this a good sense of humor, a big dose of patience, and a dash of humility, and you will be rewarded manifold through life.<\/p>\n
Adapted from the Bible Tract Bulletin<\/p>\n
Relationships Keep Us Alive<\/b><\/p>\n
Single men are jailed more often, earn less, have more illnesses and die at a younger age than married men. Married men with cancer live 20% longer than single men with the same cancer. Women, who often have more close friendships than men, survive longer with the same cancers. Married or not, relationships keep us alive.<\/p>\n
Dr. Bernie Siegel, in Homemade, May, 1989<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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