{"id":11941,"date":"2016-08-17T01:32:15","date_gmt":"2016-08-17T06:32:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/the-covenant-of-marriage\/"},"modified":"2016-08-17T01:32:15","modified_gmt":"2016-08-17T06:32:15","slug":"the-covenant-of-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/the-covenant-of-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"THE COVENANT OF MARRIAGE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt; text-align:center;line-height:normal'><b>MALACHI 2:10\u201316<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt; text-align:center;line-height:normal'><i>\u201cShe is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant\u201d.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt; text-align:center;line-height:normal'><i>(Malachi 2:14b)<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;text-indent: 18.0pt;line-height:normal'>Starting today and continuing through next week, our studies will be adopted from my lecture series entitled <i>Christian Marriage<\/i>, building on Paul\u2019s teaching in Ephesians 5. Today we want to focus on marriage as a covenant. Paul has pointed to this in Ephesians 5 by speaking of earthly marriage as analogous to the relationship between Christ and the church. The bond between Jesus and His bride is the new covenant, and so the marriage bond itself can be seen as a covenant. Malachi 2:14 explicitly calls it such.<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;text-indent: 18.0pt;line-height:normal'>There are several aspects of a covenant we should consider. First, a covenant establishes a bond between two parties, in this case the husband and wife. At the heart of this bond is a promise, the promise of faithfulness.<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;text-indent: 18.0pt;line-height:normal'>Second, a covenant establishes obligations. A primary obligation in marriage is, of course, fidelity. The husband is obligated to lead his wife in love, and she is obligated to submit to him in the fear of the Lord.<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;text-indent: 18.0pt;line-height:normal'>Third, a covenant is public. It is contracted before witnesses. There is a great difference between the whispered pledges of a boy in the back seat of a car and the solemn vows of a young man before God and man in the ceremony of holy matrimony. This public character of the covenant means that marriage is a social institution, and society has an interest in preserving it. As an institution, marriage is to be regulated by the Word of God.<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;text-indent: 18.0pt;line-height:normal'>That the marriage covenant is not simply a private affair becomes clear when we consider divorce. Divorce wrecks the lives of children. Divorce destroys peace of mind and damages the effectiveness of employees. Divorce upsets friends and family. And, for Christians, an ungodly divorce forces the elders of the church to exercise discipline.<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;text-indent: 18.0pt;line-height:normal'>Marriage is the closest possible relationship between two depraved human beings. Thus, marriage is potentially the scene of more hurt and pain than any other relationship. We need all the help we can get to make our marriages work, and so it is a good thing that marriage is a covenant, and that it is public.<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;   text-align:center;line-height:normal'><b>CORAM DEO<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;   text-align:center;line-height:normal'>1 Samuel 14\u201315<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;   text-align:center;line-height:normal'><b>WEEKEND<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;   text-align:center;line-height:normal'>1 Samuel 16\u201319   Psalm 59<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;text-indent:   18.0pt;line-height:normal'>Privately consider this question: Have you ever   wished you could get out of your marriage? Did the public character of your   marriage, the fact that people would observe your divorce, help force you to   work harder at making your marriage work?<\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:   normal'><i>For   further study: Gen. 2:15\u201325 \u2022 Prov. 6:20\u201329 \u2022 Matt. 19:1\u201312<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt; text-align:center;line-height:normal'><b>WEEKEND<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MALACHI 2:10\u201316 \u201cShe is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant\u201d. (Malachi 2:14b) Starting today and continuing through next week, our studies will be adopted from my lecture series entitled Christian Marriage, building on Paul\u2019s teaching in Ephesians 5. Today we want to focus on marriage as a covenant. Paul has pointed to this &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/the-covenant-of-marriage\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;THE COVENANT OF MARRIAGE&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11941","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sermons"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11941","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11941"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11941\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11941"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11941"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11941"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}