A<\/b> close friend just gave me a mug with \u201cGet Over It\u201d inscribed on the side. My wife gave me a sign for my counseling office years ago that read, \u201cGet over it.\u201d So what is the it?<\/p>\n
The it<\/i> we must get over in marriage is anger. Release anger. Unresolved anger destroys marriage.<\/p>\n
We don\u2019t release anger by blasting or hurting our mates. We don\u2019t get over anger by dumping on our mates. Try this:<\/p>\n
We release anger by \u2026<\/p>\n
Taking responsibility for our own feelings.<\/p>\n
Sharing honestly in love.<\/p>\n
Allowing God to replace anger with forgiveness.<\/p>\n
Believing the best instead of the worst about our mates.<\/p>\n
Deciding that I can change even if my spouse doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Setting appropriate boundaries so that what caused the anger doesn\u2019t happen again.<\/p>\n
Becoming calm instead of agitated.<\/p>\n
Acting assertively not aggressively.<\/p>\n
Admitting I was wrong in whatever part of the problem I created.<\/p>\n
Knowing that my spouse is not the enemy.<\/p>\n
Valuing the relationship more than being right.<\/p>\n
Recognizing that my perceptions may not be reality.<\/p>\n
Wanting both of us to win instead of me winning as my spouse loses.<\/p>\n
Understanding that the battle is not against flesh and blood.<\/p>\n
The time has come when we must decide as a couple to make \u201cgetting over it\u201d our first priority whenever anger seeks to erode our covenant relationship.<\/p>\n
Be angry, and do not sin: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.<\/i><\/p>\n
Eph. 4:26\u201327<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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