Quote<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 You may win the argument, but if there\u2019s blood on the floor, you lose anyway. – Anon<\/p>\n
Statue of Christ<\/b><\/p>\n
Years ago, a large statue of Christ was erected high in the Andes on the border between Argentina and Chile. Called \u201cChrist of the Andes,\u201d the statue symbolizes a pledge between the two countries that as long as the statue stands, there will be peace between Chile and Argentina.<\/p>\n
Shortly after the statue was erected, the Chileans began to protest that they had been slighted — the statue had its back turned to Chile. Just when tempers were at their highest in Chile, a Chilean newspaperman saved the day. In an editorial that not only satisfied the people but made them laugh, he simply said, \u201cThe people of Argentina need more watching over than the Chileans.<\/p>\n
Bits & Pieces, June 25, 1992<\/p>\n
Family Councils<\/b><\/p>\n
Family councils often lead to fair solutions of problems between members. Draw up a list of rules for family council meetings that are agreeable to all, such as: <\/p>\n
1. Anyone can tell parents how he\/she feels, and ask for a meeting. <\/p>\n
2. At the meeting, everyone can say that he\/she thinks about a situation. <\/p>\n
3. Instead of fixing blame, the council must try to understand why there\u2019s a problem. <\/p>\n
4. The council will try to create a solution that\u2019s fair to all. Purpose: to encourage family participation in rule making and problem solving. <\/p>\n
Paul Lewis, Homemade, Vol. 11, No. 2<\/p>\n
No Time for Kicking<\/b><\/p>\n
A horse can\u2019t pull while kicking. This fact we merely mention. And he can\u2019t kick while pulling, Which is our chief contention.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s imitate the good old horse And lead a life that\u2019s fitting; Just pull an honest load, and then There\u2019ll be no time for kicking.<\/p>\n
Bits and Pieces, May 1990, p. 7<\/p>\n
Certainly Right<\/b><\/p>\n
Maxwell Perkins, the famous book editor, once wrote, \u201cOne of my deepest convictions is that the terrible harms that are done in this world are not done by deliberately evil people, who are not numerous and are soon found out. They are done by the good\u2014by those who are so sure that God is with them. Nothing can stop them, for they are certain that they are right.<\/p>\n
Quoted by Father Henry Fehren in U.S. Catholic, May 1986<\/p>\n
Disputes<\/b><\/p>\n
Disputes between married couples are no different from those between friends outside of marriage. Few friendships can survive constant or frequent quarrels. Friends learn to curb the impulse to say bitter words in the interest of preserving the friendship. <\/p>\n
In the same way, happily married couples learn to withhold the bitter criticism or cutting retort in order to avoid unpleasantness and to enjoy greater companionship.<\/p>\n
Judson T. Landis in Nov, 1987 Homemade<\/p>\n
Escape Hatch<\/b><\/p>\n
The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.<\/p>\n
Sydney J. Harris, Field Newspaper Syndicate<\/p>\n
Agreeing in Principle<\/b><\/p>\n
Ever notice that when a fellow says he agrees with you in principle, he\u2019s invariably getting ready to argue with you?<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Two Sides of an <\/p>\n
Any argument has two sides, and they\u2019re usually married to each other.<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Resource<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 Tell it to the Church, p. 23, 8 rules for <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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