{"id":30844,"date":"2022-09-10T15:06:45","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:06:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/3-reasons-christians-stay-silent-about-their-faith\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T15:06:45","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:06:45","slug":"3-reasons-christians-stay-silent-about-their-faith","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/3-reasons-christians-stay-silent-about-their-faith\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Reasons Christians Stay Silent about Their Faith"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\"> Andrea Piacquadio photo &#8211; Pexels <\/p>\n<p><em>By Scott Hildreth<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Most Americans are interested in conversations about Christianity, but few Christians seem willing to talk about their faith, according to a recent Evangelism Explosion study conducted by Lifeway Research. <\/p>\n<p>Why aren\u2019t Christians more willing or proactive to discuss their faith?<em> <\/em>In my years teaching evangelism in the local church, on the mission field, and in academic settings, I\u2019ve learned there are several reasons Christians are silent about their faith.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>1. Christians stay silent because of a desire to be friendly<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Evangelism is a loving act of telling someone why you have hope in a broken world. It\u2019s talking about something (or someone) important to you. However, for too many, evangelism conjures a negative image; it feels unkind.<\/p>\n<p>We have no problem talking about our kids, grandkids, new cars, or even a television series we\u2019re watching. But when it comes to talking about Jesus and the difference our faith makes in our lives, we freeze. We\u2019ve accepted the idea that evangelism is unfriendly, so we remain silent.<\/p>\n<p> Evangelism practiced in love and with a winsome personality would be a welcome part of most conversations and friendships. \u2014 @dshildreth Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>Research shows 51% of Americans say they\u2019re curious and wanted to know why faith is important to others. In other words, the cringe is inside us. Evangelism practiced in love and with a winsome personality would be a welcome part of most conversations and friendships.<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>2. Christians stay silent because of fear<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s human nature to avoid uncomfortable things. In fact, it keeps us alive. For many, evangelism is a frightening prospect. I\u2019ve observed this fear takes three forms.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fear of failure<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>According to Mohsin Shafique, \u201cFear of failure is the number one reason people don\u2019t set goals or try new things.\u201d An article in the <em>LA Times<\/em> noted fear of failure plagues 31% of adults. This is greater than the fear of spiders (30%), being home alone (9%), or even ghosts (15%). Instinctively, we know most of our conversations about Jesus will not end with someone confessing faith in Christ. If we define a successful evangelistic conversation as one that ends in new birth, we\u2019re setting ourselves up for failure, something most of us would rather avoid.<\/p>\n<p> What if we understood that successful evangelism is a cooperative effort with multiple people and multiple encounters\u2014sowing and watering, then reaping when God gives the growth? \u2014 @dshildreth Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>What if we shifted our definition of successful evangelism? What if we followed the guidelines given by Paul in 1 Corinthians 3:6-8 where he writes:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So, then, neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth. Now he who plants and he who waters are one, and each will receive his own reward according to his own labor\u201d (CSB).<\/p>\n<p>What if we understood that successful evangelism is a cooperative effort with multiple people and multiple encounters\u2014sowing and watering, then reaping when God gives the growth?<\/p>\n<p>With this new definition, failure is almost impossible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fear of not knowing enough<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We usually couch this fear in a sentence like, \u201cI am afraid someone will ask me a question I don\u2019t know the answer to.\u201d This is a legitimate concern. The Bible is a big book, and there are so many complicated theological and ethical questions that no one can really know it all. However, we can\u2019t let this fear keep us silent.<\/p>\n<p> Unanswered questions rarely, if ever, keep someone from becoming a Christian. After all, you\u2019re a Christian, and not knowing the answer didn\u2019t stop you from trusting Christ. \u2014 @dshildreth Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>Consider:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"has-normal-font-size\">\n<li>According to Romans 1, it\u2019s the gospel, not our well-thought-out answers, that is God\u2019s power for salvation.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d is an acceptable answer. In fact, it&#8217;s a great answer because it communicates honesty and provides a reason for a follow-up conversation when you find the answer.<\/li>\n<li>Unanswered questions rarely, if ever, keep someone from becoming a Christian. After all, you\u2019re a Christian, and not knowing the answer didn\u2019t stop you from trusting Christ.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"u20da584720d23e905cc871352985f4d1-content\">See also&nbsp; 8 Ways to Persevere in Ministry<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Fear of Saying the Wrong Thing<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Several months ago, my wife and I were in a big box store, and a man stopped us to ask if we knew where the bathroom was. We pointed to the back of the store, and he walked off. Then we realized we\u2019d sent him in the wrong direction.<\/p>\n<p>What a terrible reality to discover you\u2019ve given someone bad directions. However, as with the other fears, this one is often exaggerated in our minds. I\u2019m not suggesting that content is not important in evangelism. However, God uses our efforts to accomplish his purposes.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>3. Christians stay silent because of a tendency toward forgetfulness<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/h3>\n<p>I think this is the number one reason Christians don\u2019t talk about Jesus. We\u2019re just too busy or too distracted to remember to do so. A 2019 study from Lifeway Research discovered 55% of those who attend church at least monthly say they haven\u2019t shared Christ with anyone in the past six months, although nearly the same percentage (56%) say they pray for opportunities to share at least once a week. And 23% say they pray daily for evangelistic opportunities.<\/p>\n<p> We are surrounded by people who need Jesus, and research tells us they\u2019re open to talking. \u2014 @dshildreth Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s happening here? Are we to assume these Christians didn\u2019t talk with any unbelievers? Are we to believe God refused to answer these prayers? I doubt this is true. My guess\u2013through personal experience\u2013is most of these folks started their day with good intentions, but then, as events unfolded, they simply forgot.<\/p>\n<p>What can you do to remember to share Christ?<\/p>\n<ul class=\"has-normal-font-size\">\n<li>Make a list of names and pray specifically for them.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li>Make plans to share. Make this part of your schedule.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li>Create a team, those you can partner with for evangelism.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>We are surrounded by people who need Jesus, and research tells us they\u2019re open to talking.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color:#f2f2f2;color:#32373c\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-profile-box square gb-has-avatar gb-font-size-18 gb-block-profile gb-profile-columns\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-avatar-wrap\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-image-wrap\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-content-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-profile-name\" style=\"color:#32373c\">Scott Hildreth<\/h2>\n<p class=\"gb-profile-title\" style=\"color:#32373c\">@dshildreth<\/p>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-text\">\n<p>Scott is the George Liele Director of the Lewis A Drummond Center for Great Commission Studies and assistant professor of Missiology at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. Before SEBTS, he and his family served with the International Mission Board in Europe and Central Asia.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"gb-social-links\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h3>Tell Someone: You Can Share the Good News<\/h3>\n<p>Greg Laurie<\/p>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  Most Open to Spiritual Conversations, Few Christians Speaking  What Do Pastors Believe About the End Times?  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