{"id":30880,"date":"2022-09-10T15:08:14","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:08:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/pastor-take-a-break-before-you-quit\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T15:08:14","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:08:14","slug":"pastor-take-a-break-before-you-quit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/pastor-take-a-break-before-you-quit\/","title":{"rendered":"Pastor, Take a Break Before You Quit"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\"> <strong>Tara Winstead<\/strong>\u00a0photo &#8211;\u00a0<strong>Pexels<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p><em>By Jared C. Wilson<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Barna reported in December of 2021 that 38% of pastors had considered quitting ministry at the end of 2021. That may not seem like a large number to you, but it\u2019s a 9% increase over those reporting the same at the beginning of 2021. In just one year, the number of pastors who\u2019d considered quitting jumped nearly 10%.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s become almost clich\u00e9 at this point to say that the pandemic, political divisions, cultural upheaval, and the like have all taken their toll. I tend to think we ought to measure the last four years of ministry as taking the toll of twice that (maybe a ministry \u201cdog years\u201d type of thing).<\/p>\n<p>The good news is, according to a 2021 Lifeway Research study, the rate of those who\u2019ve actually quit is statistically negligible from 2015 to 2021. But the increased number of those contemplating quitting\u2014and the potentially higher rate of pastors transferring from one ministry assignment to another\u2014still doesn\u2019t give us an optimistic forecast for the next few years of ministerial resilience. Indeed, 63% of pastors were not the senior leader of their church 10 years ago.<\/p>\n<p> What a lot of pastors on the verge of quitting need is not a new context or a new vocation but a substantive break\u2014a sabbatical. \u2014 @JaredCWilson Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m convinced that what a lot of pastors on the verge of quitting need is not a new context or a new vocation but a substantive break\u2014a sabbatical. But so many pastors are in churches where that\u2019s a foreign concept or a tough sell or otherwise unfeasible. For instance, it is more difficult for those in solo pastor contexts to take a lengthy break.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to reintroduce the traditional observance of the sabbatical to our ministerial practice.<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>What is a sabbatical?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>A sabbatical\u2014from the word for sabbath\u2014is a permitted time away for an employee to rest and reset. It is a time to focus on personal, emotional, and\/or educational development in preparation for their next season of employment or ministry. Although becoming more popular in the secular marketplace as mitigation of burnout, sabbaticals are customarily taken by those in academic professions (as in colleges or seminaries) or in ministerial professions at certain predetermined milestones of employment.<\/p>\n<p>Different institutions treat sabbaticals differently. Some leave the purpose of the sabbatical up to the proposal of the one preparing to take leave. They\u2019re often used for personal retreat or study in church settings, but sometimes also used in academic settings for writing leave or research focus.<\/p>\n<p>Sabbatical policies differ from church to church and institution to institution, but following the pattern of the biblical sabbatical (Leviticus 25), most ministerial sabbaticals occur every seventh year of full-time employment. Sabbaticals range in length, typically one to three months\u2014though they can extend much longer commensurate with the length of one\u2019s tenure\u2014and they don\u2019t usually replace or subsume regularly allowed vacation days.<\/p>\n<p>In most cases, pastors present to their fellow elders or appropriate committee a proposal for how they plan to use their sabbatical. In congregationally governed churches, the approved proposal is presented to membership as a motion for approval.<\/p>\n<p> By rewarding faithful shepherds with extended time away at regular intervals, congregations obey the biblical mandates to honor their elders (1 Timothy 5:17). \u2014 @JaredCWilson Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>The purpose of any specific sabbatical leave for a pastor is largely determined by the pastor proposing the leave in conjunction with his fellow pastors and congregation. Pastors can and should use sabbatical time in any or all of the following ways:<\/p>\n<ol style=\"font-size:21px\">\n<li>Personal retreat for spiritual renewal and theological development<\/li>\n<li>Intentional focus on marriage and family<\/li>\n<li>Writing projects or other academic pursuits<\/li>\n<li>Professional development via courses or conferences or travel for educational purposes<\/li>\n<li>Additional rest\/leisure as needed<\/li>\n<li>Counseling or coaching for emotional and spiritual maintenance<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>One benefit of ministry sabbaticals for pastors is they typically allow a valuable time of reset for pastors. This time of refreshing, renewed energy, and vision for the next season of ministry works against ministry burnout. By rewarding faithful shepherds with extended time away at regular intervals, congregations obey the biblical mandates to honor their elders (1 Timothy 5:17) and work against their groaning in their work (Hebrews 13:17).<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Why pastors should take sabbaticals<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The first reason pastors, like everyone, should regularly rest is because the Lord commands it. We are finite creatures with limited capacities. We are not made to run 24\/7, 365 days a year. But the main reason pastors should take a substantive break (like a sabbatical) is because pastoral ministry takes an enormous emotional toll. Ministry is spiritualized exhaustion.<\/p>\n<p> Ministry is spiritualized exhaustion. \u2014 @JaredCWilson Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>Until you\u2019ve experienced it, you can\u2019t quite understand this. If you trust your pastor, you believe him when (if) he talks about it, but until you\u2019ve been in that role, you can\u2019t really understand the emotional toll on good pastors. Closely analogous roles would be those who do emergency work, police officers, or even some social workers, where one constantly feels \u201con,\u201d there are frequent crises that keep the worker\u2019s adrenaline going long after the crisis is over, and there are experiences and challenges that become difficult to discuss with others who do not share the same work.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"uce160a656fc2382e04dbc58726ed5ddb-content\">See also&nbsp; The Power of the Ordinary Moments<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Dale Wolyniak explains it this way:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Unlike a doctor or lawyer, who can schedule or refer clients to another peer for services, a minister is less likely to say no or \u2018not now\u2019 to the people he has come to love. . . . This sense of always being on call, of feeling indispensable and irreplaceable, can have a devastating effect on both a minister\u2019s health and his family\u2019s well-being.<\/p>\n<p>Though I\u2019m still in vocational ministry, the difference between the end of my work day now and the end of my work day when I was a pastor is significant. Today, for the most part, I can \u201cturn off\u201d my job when it\u2019s time to stop working. When I was pastoring, I could not do that. Here\u2019s what it typically looked like for me:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul style=\"font-size:21px\">\n<li>I was \u201con call\u201d 24\/7 for emergencies (and situations people considered emergencies, even if they weren\u2019t).<\/li>\n<li>I lost lots of sleep over hurts people carried, sins people were committing, resentments people were harboring, and circumstances that seemed too spiritually daunting.<\/li>\n<li>When going on vacation, it typically took me a few days just to start relaxing. In my first few years, this would be immediately undone if I made the bonehead move of checking email or voicemail.<\/li>\n<li>It was hard to be present with my wife and kids because of frequent, intense relational work necessary during ministry engagements. They needed my best when I was at my most fatigued relationally.<\/li>\n<li>People\u2019s spiritual needs didn\u2019t stay confined within a neat 40-hour work week.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Good pastors can\u2019t take the pastor hat off at the end of the\u202fday or leave their hearts for their flocks in the office when they clock out. It\u2019s not something you can just turn off.<\/p>\n<p>A sabbatical can be a healthy and gracious solution. It can be an extended time to actually unplug from the needs of ministry and refocus on one\u2019s neediness before God. Sabbaticals can also provide time of significant renewal and refreshing a pastor may need for another lengthy season of ministry ahead.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>How can churches help?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>What does it benefit churches to have a pastor who is exhausted and on the verge of burnout? What might it benefit churches to have a pastor who feels not only refreshed and renewed, but extraordinarily cared for by his congregation?<\/p>\n<p>This is exactly the language the author of Hebrews uses when exhorting the church to not contribute to the groaning of her leaders. He says this would be \u201cunprofitable\u201d to the church (Hebrews 13:17).<\/p>\n<p>Only 32% of churches report they have a plan in place for ministerial sabbaticals. Churches may think they can\u2019t live without you for the length of a sabbatical, but I promise you a temporary break is better than a permanent one. It\u2019s better for churches to learn how to lean into their giftings as caretakers for one another than it is to leave the whole burden of care to a tired few. Maybe the sabbatical can be used as an opportunity for the congregation to tap into unrealized potential, to activate dormant gifts, and to more fully embrace what it means to do life together and meet one another\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n<p> It\u2019s better for churches to learn how to lean into their giftings as caretakers for one another than it is to leave the whole burden of care to a tired few. \u2014 @JaredCWilson Click To Tweet <\/p>\n<p>Having served as a pastor for many years\u2014and never having received a substantive break for rest and renewal\u2014I know what it\u2019s like to be in the ministerial trenches day in and day out, to feel tired and discouraged in a practically unshakeable way, and further, to feel like very few people in my congregation knew, cared, or were able to do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p>Now serving in a layman\u2019s capacity as the chair of my church\u2019s personnel committee, I take seriously the call to advocate for the physical, spiritual, and emotional health of our employees, including our pastors and ministry leaders. If your church has a personnel committee or similar, it\u2019s important to remember they serve primarily as advocates for the employees, and this might include proposing a sabbatical policy for full-time ministers. We did exactly that at our church because we love our leaders and want them to flourish. And we know their flourishing is directly connected to our own.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color:#f2f2f2;color:#32373c\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-profile-box square gb-has-avatar gb-font-size-18 gb-block-profile gb-profile-columns\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-avatar-wrap\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-image-wrap\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-content-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-profile-name\" style=\"color:#32373c\">Jared C. Wilson<\/h2>\n<p class=\"gb-profile-title\" style=\"color:#32373c\">@JaredCWilson<\/p>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-text\">\n<p>Jared is author in residence of Midwestern Seminary, assistant professor of pastoral ministry at Spurgeon College, general editor of For the Church, and director of the Pastoral Training Center at Liberty Baptist Church in Kansas City, Mo.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"gb-social-links\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h3>At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy, and Priorities Working in Your Favor<\/h3>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  Few Pastors Left the Pulpit Despite Increased Pressure  3 Ways to Reach Non-Religious People in Your Community  3 Reorienting Truths for the Discouraged Pastor <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tara Winstead\u00a0photo &#8211;\u00a0Pexels By Jared C. 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