{"id":30936,"date":"2022-09-10T15:10:24","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:10:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/the-not-so-surprising-reason-kids-grow-up-to-be-atheists\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T15:10:24","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:10:24","slug":"the-not-so-surprising-reason-kids-grow-up-to-be-atheists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/the-not-so-surprising-reason-kids-grow-up-to-be-atheists\/","title":{"rendered":"The Not-So-Surprising Reason Kids Grow up to Be Atheists"},"content":{"rendered":"
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By Y Bonesteele<\/em><\/p>\n

A new study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science shows that the number one predictive factor for an American child becoming an atheist is growing up in a home with little religion or religious activity.<\/p>\n

For some, this might seem intuitive at first glance, but the disconnect comes when atheists are asked why they believe what they believe. Many are less prone to say they are an atheist because of their parental influence and more respond that they are so because they have looked at reason and science.<\/p>\n

For the study, Will Gervais, a senior lecturer in psychology at Brunel University in London, and his colleagues surveyed a sample of 1,417 U.S. residents.<\/p>\n

\u201cA lot of people (atheists in particular) like to talk about how atheism comes from rational, effortful thought. This work joins other recent surveys in finding that this isn\u2019t too accurate,\u201d Gervais told PsyPost in a recent article. \u201cOur best estimate is that atheism mostly comes down to cultural learning\u2014specific cues we\u2019re exposed to growing up about how sincerely those around us believe in God. Once those cultural inputs are accounted for, individual differences in more analytic cognitive reflection predict a little bit of surface variation, but it\u2019s a pretty small piece of the puzzle.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSo many people seem really convinced that they\u2019re atheists because they\u2019re super rational and science minded. But large-scale quantitative research basically never shows that to be a major predictor of atheism.\u201d Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

What Gervais\u2019 research has exposed is that family upbringing and early exposure to belief or disbelief has a great influence on us. Our cultural context plays a large part in our beliefs. For atheists who sometimes claim superior scientific reasoning or analytical thought as the basis for their faith in no God, this new research reveals otherwise.<\/p>\n

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\u201cDoing this research and also talking to atheist groups, I\u2019m always struck at the mismatch between people\u2019s narratives about their atheism and the research,\u201d added Gervais. \u201cSo many people seem really convinced that they\u2019re atheists because they\u2019re super rational and science minded. But large-scale quantitative research basically never shows that to be a major predictor of atheism.\u201d<\/p>\n

Relationships With and Exposure to Believers<\/strong><\/h3>\n

What can we take away from this research as believers?<\/p>\n

Perhaps we can say that our relationships with others can expose them to religious activity and religious moral character which can influence a person\u2019s belief in God. With this type of research to back that position, it\u2019s clear that evangelism, even simply by contact or observance, can make a difference in someone\u2019s life for the first step towards trusting in Christ.<\/p>\n

Creating Numerous Contact Points<\/strong><\/h3>\n

For children and teens especially, consistent Christian presence in their life can make a big impact towards them continuing to walk with Christ and in the church. This is the cultural context the research reveals. As we minister to families through children\u2019s ministry, youth ministry, VBS, and other activities, we can be assured that these moments of contact make a difference in their lives.<\/p>\n

For children and teens especially, consistent Christian presence in their life can make a big impact towards them continuing to walk with Christ and in the church. \u2014 Y Bonesteele Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

Thus, hopefully, we are intentionally asking our adult leaders and volunteers to make contact with our kids and teens, whether through simple greetings or small-talk conversations, understanding that all these small moments collectively make an impact.<\/p>\n

Prioritizing Kids and Teens Not in the Church<\/strong><\/h3>\n

There is always much to be done with kids in families that already go to our churches. But are we also looking at opportunities to serve and minister to those kids and teens from families that don\u2019t go to church at all?<\/p>\n

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Urban ministries tend to do this much better than suburban ministries, as they realize parents with low-income or two-income families sometimes don\u2019t have the time or desire to drive their kids to a church event but are open to their kids going.<\/p>\n

Some urban ministries have buses to pick up kids or a carpool schedule from leaders. That way, they can pick up kids and teens to church for Sunday service, or midweek youth group, or afterschool tutoring at the church. Urban ministries have tried to eliminate the barriers that could prevent a student from a church activity. Churches in other contexts could see how to apply some of those ideas to their circumstances.<\/p>\n

Finding More Points of Contact<\/strong><\/h3>\n

For the urban or suburban or rural church, as pastors and leaders, we need to continue to think about how we can achieve more points of contact with students yet to believe. Spending time on the sports field, at the school campus, or at popular hangouts are as much part of our ministry as times in our church building.<\/p>\n

Spending time on the sports field, at the school campus, or at popular hangouts are as much part of kid and student ministry as times in our church building. Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

And as much as we want to limit our time on social media, for teens and Gen Z, these are additional opportunities to engage with them, especially for those not in the church. Seeing social media as a catalyst or starting points for conversations and relationship-building is the key though, realizing that in-person contact is the eventual goal.<\/p>\n

Kids and teens want the same things adults do: people who accept them, people they can confide in, people they can rely on, people that can model a good, joyful life. They can either try to find someone like that through the latest social media celebrity, a teacher, coach, or family member who doesn\u2019t live like Jesus. Or they can find it in us, leaders and pastors who are living the discipleship journey with joy.<\/p>\n

Kids and teens want the same things adults do: people who accept them, people they can confide in, people they can rely on, people that can model a good, joyful life. \u2014 Y Bonesteele Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

At the end of the day, we know Christianity to be true based on the logical reasoning for the existence of God and the validity of the Bible and all that\u2019s within it. Atheists can claim higher intellect, but it\u2019s just not true. <\/p>\n

We\u2019re also reminded of the powerful influence of a consistent trusted relationship in our upbringing, in the way we believe or not believe. Though we know God is the One opening hearts and minds to receive Him, we stay passionate on our part to partner with Him to reach the future generation with the hope of the gospel, mainly through our faithful presence in their lives.<\/p>\n

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Y is an editorial coordinator at Lifeway Christian Resources. She has her M.Div. from Talbot School of Theology with an emphasis in Evangelism and Discipleship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n