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Tanya Nevidoma photo – Unsplash <\/p>\n

Ministry and Grief During the Pandemic<\/strong><\/h3>\n

By Aaron Earls<\/em><\/p>\n

It all started at a funeral. Instead of simply marking the end of a life, the late February 2020 funeral of a 64-year-old man became the start of a deadly coronavirus spike in Albany, Ga.<\/p>\n

By late March, close to 500 people in the area had contracted COVID-19, and at least 29 people died, according to the Georgia Department of Public Health. One of those was a beloved member of Sherwood Baptist Church in Albany, according to John Spencer, who oversees pastoral care and senior adult ministries at the church.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe was one of three sisters who came in a few years ago and immediately plugged in and began to serve,\u201d Spencer said. \u201cShe helped set up in her Sunday School class and made sure everyone was greeted.\u201d<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, she caught COVID-19 and was hospitalized on a ventilator. \u201cHer older sister had it and recovered,\u201d said Spencer. \u201cWe thought she was getting better, and then she died.\u201d<\/p>\n

Similar to Albany, New Orleans faced the wrath of the coronavirus early. Fred Luter, pastor of Franklin Avenue Baptist Church, said they also lost their first member to COVID-19 in March 2020.<\/p>\n

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\u201cWe started getting calls about people going into the hospital with COVID and noticing the numbers,\u201d said Luter. \u201cAfter we quickly had a fourth person die from it, we realized this was serious and would change how we minister.\u201d The church has lost 15 members to the pandemic.<\/p>\n

As the United States begins the second year of the coronavirus pandemic, Spencer and Luter shared how COVID-19 impacted their congregations and communities, as well as what other church leaders can learn from their tragic experiences.<\/p>\n

Facing death behind a mask<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The experiences of Sherwood and Franklin Avenue were rare among churches. In early April 2020, only 5% of U.S. Protestant pastors told Lifeway Research one of their church attendees had even been diagnosed with COVID-19. By June last year, 28% of pastors said someone in their church had COVID-19 and 5% had lost someone to the virus.<\/p>\n

Now, however, many more churches have dealt with COVID diagnoses and deaths. In February 2021, 88% of Protestant pastors said someone in their church had been diagnosed with the virus, and 28% said a churchgoer had died from COVID. Among churchgoers, Lifeway Research found 42% say a fellow member has had COVID-19, and 18% say someone in their congregation died from it.<\/p>\n

In April 2020, 5% of pastors said a churchgoer had been diagnosed with COVID-19. By February 2021, 88% of Protestant pastors said someone in their church had been diagnosed, and 28% said a churchgoer had died from it. Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

These tragic experiences have stretched over a year for Spencer, Luter, and other congregations.<\/p>\n

Luter recalled the first people to die of COVID-19 at Franklin Avenue. \u201cA husband and wife, who had been married for 56 years and had a large family \u2026 two weeks after she died, he died,\u201d Luter said. \u201cBoth were beloved in our church. For them to die back to back really affected our church.\u201d<\/p>\n

Part of the impact is not being able to grieve together and support one another as they have in the past, said Luter. \u201cNormally, when someone dies, we are greeting and hugging family members, but because of COVID we can\u2019t do that. Funerals that would normally be jam packed with people are limited to 15 to 20 according to city guidelines,\u201d he said. \u201cThat was the tough part\u2014not being able to be there for people in the same way.\u201d<\/p>\n

Spencer said he recently did a funeral service for a member who died last April. \u201cHis wife died a few weeks ago, so the family just asked to do a service for both at the same time,\u201d he said. \u201cThey were one of our stalwart families. He taught second grade Sunday School for 50 years.\u201d<\/p>\n

Even in the times they\u2019ve been able to speak with and spend time with grieving families has been different. \u201cWe had to learn how to grieve without the same personal connections,\u201d Luter said, \u201celbow and fist bumps instead of hugs.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWe have to approach everyone with the ability to reach differently based on where they are and being more aware of each individual\u2019s perspective.\u201d \u2014 John Spencer Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve had to be more careful about the words I use and the tone of my voice,\u201d Spencer said, \u201cbecause they can\u2019t see a smile on my face when I\u2019m wearing a mask.\u201d Previously, he said he would place a hand on someone and pray for them. Now, he asks permission before doing that. \u201cWe have to approach everyone with the ability to reach differently based on where they are and being more aware of each individual\u2019s perspective.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Spencer and Luter say their churches are still working to do what they can to minister to members, especially during moments of loss. Early on, both say they did a lot of pastoral care over the phone. Spencer said they asked, \u201cHow do you minister when you can\u2019t see someone?\u201d Part of their answer was calling through the entire church roll several times throughout the pandemic and doing so even more often with members who were 65 and older.<\/p>\n

Another solution for Sherwood Baptist was finding ways to tangibly serve the community. \u201cWe provided meals and items like hand sanitizer for the hospital, first responders, and the local college,\u201d Spencer said. \u201cWe\u2019ve been able to connect with the community in ways we were not able to before.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWe\u2019ve been able to connect with the community in ways we were not able to before.\u201d \u2014 John Spencer Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

To serve people who were discharged from the hospital with COVID-19, they also started providing free care package that contained a blood\/oxygen monitor, Gatorade, other necessities, and a prayer card from the church. \u201cA local man recovered from COVID himself and saw what we were doing. He called and asked what he could do to help, so we partnered with him for the blood\/oxygen monitors,\u201d Spencer said. \u201cHe doesn\u2019t even go to our church.\u201d<\/p>\n

Through the pandemic and beyond<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Even with vaccines becoming more widely available, Luter said people are remaining cautious about going back to \u201cnormal.\u201d \u201cPeople don\u2019t want to let their guard down,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s going to be a slow transition, but one we are looking forward to. We are excited to be able to look back on this and say, \u2018We never want to go through that again.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYou have to be there for your members\u2014COVID or not.\u201d \u2014 @PastorFredLuter Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

Still, as the pandemic-related deaths continue to climb, Luter said churches must continue to minister. \u201cYou have to be there for your members\u2014COVID or not,\u201d he said. \u201cYou may not be able to minister as you did before, but you have to contact them to let them know you are there for them as much as possible. Let them know you are praying for them.\u201d <\/p>\n

He said God promised to \u201cnever leave us, nor forsake us,\u201d so pastors must continue to put their faith, confidence, and trust in God as they continue to serve their congregations.<\/p>\n

\u201cIsolation is never good for anybody. One connection is important. Help people understand they aren\u2019t forgotten.\u201d \u2014 John Spencer Click To Tweet <\/p>\n

Even once the pandemic is over, Spencer said the ministry will continue. \u201cHonestly, I don\u2019t know if we have finished grieving,\u201d Spencer said. \u201cIt\u2019s going to take longer for people to get through this. The process has been slowed down because of the isolation.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s that isolation that both Luter and Spencer said their churches are trying to overcome. \u201cIsolation is never good for anybody,\u201d Spencer said. \u201cOne connection is important. Help people understand they aren\u2019t forgotten.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Aaron Earls<\/h2>\n

@WardrobeDoor<\/p>\n

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Aaron is a writer for LifewayResearch.com.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n