{"id":31283,"date":"2022-09-10T15:24:16","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:24:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/where-pastors-can-find-unexpected-wise-counsel\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T15:24:16","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:24:16","slug":"where-pastors-can-find-unexpected-wise-counsel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/where-pastors-can-find-unexpected-wise-counsel\/","title":{"rendered":"Where Pastors Can Find Unexpected Wise Counsel"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">Jim Reardan photo &#8211; Unsplash <\/p>\n<p><em>By Scott Patty<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">A recent phone call was supposed to be a pastoral care situation. That\u2019s where someone asks me a question and then I give an answer. This is the way the pastoral world works, right?<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">There are clients (congregants) and there are experts (pastors and church leaders), and each plays their role.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">Or so I thought.<\/p>\n<p>During said phone call, the church member I was supposed to be counseling asked me a question.<\/p>\n<p>But before I could give an answer, I began hearing from this person how the Lord was working to change her thinking, give her new perspective, and lead her to make some positive change in her life.<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">I just listened.<\/p>\n<p>After a few minutes, I began relating her words to my own life.<\/p>\n<p>I could see that what she is learning from the Lord applies to a situation I was experiencing. I sensed that she was speaking wise words\u2014sound, biblical truth.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">I actually determined to do something in my life based on what she was telling me about what\u2019s happening in her life.<\/p>\n<p>And then, before we ended the call, when usually I pray for the person I have advised, she asked me if she could pray for me. Then, she prayed.<\/p>\n<p>I hope that something I said in our conversation was helpful to her. I hope my prayer for her was encouraging, and that she had a sense that the Lord will answer that prayer and strengthen her today.<\/p>\n<p>What I know is that I was instructed, encouraged, and prayed for by my friend and fellow church member.<\/p>\n<p>That phone call was as much for me as it was for her. We were mutually strengthened by one another\u2019s faith.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"u5b26f43f12c767362ab4ff67ebb536a4-content\">See also&nbsp; The Group Most Likely to Still Be Missing From Your Church<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>What I love about the church of Christ is that we aren\u2019t clients and experts, we are brothers and sisters who help each other.<\/p>\n<p>Pastors and other church leaders, while called to serve, aren\u2019t called to have all the answers.<\/p>\n<p>That day, I learned by listening and receiving I can be served even while I serve.<\/p>\n<p>Today, let yourself be served, instructed, and encouraged. Let someone you serve through pastoral leadership pray for you.<\/p>\n<p>Doing so will require you to be a listener, a receiver, and a friend. You might have to initiate the conversation. I encourage you to do so.<\/p>\n<p>May the Lord bless and build His church through more calls like the one I had that day\u2014and through friendships formed in the churches lead and serve.<\/p>\n<p><strong>SCOTT PATTY<\/strong>&nbsp;<em>is the pastor of Grace Community Church in Brentwood, Tennessee. He\u2019s the author of&nbsp;<\/em>Words of Grace: A 100-Day Devotional.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h2>Words of Grace: A 100 Day Devotional<\/h2>\n<p>Scott Patty<\/p>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  What Do Pastors Believe About the End Times?  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