{"id":31573,"date":"2022-09-10T15:35:42","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:35:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/3-steps-for-killing-ministry-idolatry\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T15:35:42","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:35:42","slug":"3-steps-for-killing-ministry-idolatry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/3-steps-for-killing-ministry-idolatry\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Steps for Killing Ministry Idolatry"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">Pixabay photo &#8211; Pexels <\/p>\n<p><em>By Derwin L. Gray<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Anyone who is invested in their ministry feels pressure to perform. To grow their reach. To see lives changed. To see communities transformed.<\/p>\n<p>These are all good things. But if not kept in check, these ambitions can start to eat away at our souls.<\/p>\n<p>Leaders, please take care of your soul. Your soul is the totality of your being, it\u2019s who you are. The best thing you can give your families and local church is a wholly, emotionally, and physically healthy you.<\/p>\n<p>When I say wholly what I mean is this. We are whole in Christ and He declares us to be holy. Through the Holy Spirit, we get to grow in this holiness.<\/p>\n<p>Your gift to teach, preach, or lead is important, but your holistic health\u2014like your spiritual, emotional, and family life\u2014is more important.<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<p>Don\u2019t lose your family because you\u2019re having an affair with the congregation or pursuing ministry success.<\/p>\n<p>After all, It\u2019s easy for people to love your gift because it blesses them, but they don\u2019t necessarily love you. Make sure you are caring for yourself because if you don\u2019t, no one else will.<\/p>\n<p>The Barna Group in partnership with Pepperdine University conducted an interview of 14,000 pastors across various denominations.<\/p>\n<p>What they discovered is that pastors are not immune to mental health struggles. Half reported suffering from depression. 1 in 5 struggled with addiction, mostly to pornography.<\/p>\n<p>Spiritual warfare is real, but how much of these struggles are because of our own ministry idolatry? We can become so obsessed with our churches and ministries growing fast that we shrink our souls.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some ways we can care for our souls while we fight the temptation to make ministry front and center in our hearts.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>1. It is vital that we, by faith, anchor ourselves in the deep and life-giving love of Jesus. <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u201cMy lips will glorify you because your faithful love is better than life. So I will bless you as long as I live; at your name, I will lift up my hands\u201d (Psalm 63:3-4).<\/p>\n<p>Always remember that the love of Jesus is better than life. It\u2019s better than ministry and our church growing fast. Take time to marinate on Ephesians 3:16-19.<\/p>\n<p>God wants to do ministry through you. But don\u2019t let doing ministry destroy the ministry God wants to do <em>in<\/em> you.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2. It is vital that we, by faith, anchor ourselves in our union life with Christ. <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I don\u2019t have to be the lead pastor of Transformation Church to be okay. Being a pastor is not my primary identity. Who I am is a beloved child of Christ. Who I am is because of the Great I Am.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"u5f6c5739774d55d206d99351304f0c5f-content\">See also&nbsp; What Churches Must Do to Reach Gen Z<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Our ministries don\u2019t define us. \u201cFor he chose us in him, before the foundation of the world, to be holy and blameless in love before him. He predestined us to be adopted as sons through Jesus Christ for himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,&nbsp;to the praise of his glorious grace&nbsp;that he lavished on us in the Beloved One\u201d (Ephesians 1:4-6).<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to care for your soul when you think you\u2019re the one enhancing your soul. The Father loves Jesus, so he loves us.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>3. It is vital that we, by faith, care for our mental and physical health. <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Investing in our mental and physical health is an act of worship. When it comes to exercising, do something that\u2019s sustainable that you actually enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>Although I\u2019m a former NFL player, you\u2019d have to pay me a salary in order for me to be involved in CrossFit. That\u2019s not something I\u2019m going to keep up with!<\/p>\n<p>So find something you like that will be beneficial to your physical health. Also, get sleep. One of the most holy things you can do is take a nap.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus already died for the church; you don\u2019t have to. Don\u2019t burn yourself out. White space is good space. Don\u2019t fill in every second of your calendar.<\/p>\n<p>And if you have struggles with mental health go to counseling, go to therapy, and get some biblical spiritual direction. Know your limits, establish your boundaries, and make sure you have accountability.<\/p>\n<p>I want us all to serve in ministry for a long time, but I want us to serve faithfully, healthfully, and beautifully.<\/p>\n<p><strong>DERWIN L. GRAY (<\/strong><strong>DerwinLGray<\/strong><strong>)<\/strong>&nbsp;<em>is the founding and lead pastor of Transformation Church in the Charlotte, North Carolina area. He is a former NFL safety and is the author of&nbsp;<\/em>Limitless Life<em>,&nbsp;<\/em>The HD Leader<em>, and a forthcoming title from B&amp;H,&nbsp;<\/em>The Good Life: What Jesus Teaches About Finding True Happiness<em>.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h2>The Good Life: What Jesus Teaches About Finding True Happiness<\/h2>\n<p>Derwin L. Gray<\/p>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  What Do Pastors Believe About the End Times?  What Do Pastors Believe About the Book of Revelation?  3 Ways to Reach Non-Religious People in Your Community  5 Signs a Pastor Is Emotionally Unhealthy <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pixabay photo &#8211; Pexels By Derwin L. Gray Anyone who is invested in their ministry feels pressure to perform. To grow their reach. To see lives changed. To see communities transformed. These are all good things. But if not kept in check, these ambitions can start to eat away at our souls. Leaders, please take &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/3-steps-for-killing-ministry-idolatry\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;3 Steps for Killing Ministry Idolatry&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31573","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sermons"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31573","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31573"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31573\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31573"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31573"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31573"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}