{"id":31948,"date":"2022-09-10T15:50:20","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:50:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/where-can-ministry-couples-get-help\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T15:50:20","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:50:20","slug":"where-can-ministry-couples-get-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/where-can-ministry-couples-get-help\/","title":{"rendered":"Where Can Ministry Couples Get Help?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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By Mark Dance<\/em><\/p>\n

A pastor\u2019s ministry will never be stronger than his marriage. This is why I’ve been looking across the U.S. for the best retreats and intensives for ministry couples. Lifeway considers these ministries as partners, not competitors, in the fight for healthy ministry marriages.<\/p>\n

Marriage Retreats<\/strong><\/h3>\n

I found several marriage retreats, but only a few which focus exclusively on ministry couples. My wife and I have attended and served at six of these marriage retreats, so we\u2019re recommending them from first-hand experience.<\/p>\n

Galatians 6:6 Retreats<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Dr. David Ferguson and his family have been hosting these gifted retreats for about thirty years and have served 12,000 ministry couples. You\u2019ll greatly enjoy investing in this time of marriage renewal.<\/p>\n

Christian Hospitality Network<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Paul Cowell created this network of discounted lodging for missionaries and pastors (25-50% discounts). His family built the Whitestone Inn near Knoxville, Tennessee, which invites missionaries to stay for free and ministers to stay for half price.<\/p>\n

Weekend to Remember<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Janet and I attended this Family Life couples retreat twenty years ago and sent several groups from our church. Pastors need to check out FamilyLife\u2019s Pastor Scholarship.<\/p>\n

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Marriage Intensives<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Some ministry marriages need more than a retreat because they\u2019re in serious trouble. These intensives have saved a lot of marriages and ministries, but they\u2019re not quick, easy, or cheap. Here are four places where pastors can fight for their marriages:<\/p>\n

National Institute for Marriage<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Therapist-led, intensive counseling for couples and for whole families (Focus on the Family).<\/p>\n

SonScape Retreats <\/strong><\/h4>\n

They host both marriage retreats and marriage intensives in Colorado Springs. They\u2019re resourced primarily by the Mardel family.<\/p>\n

WinShape Retreats<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Hosts both marriage retreats and intensives in Rome, Georgia. They\u2019re resourced primarily by the Cathy family (Chick-fil-A).<\/p>\n

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City of Refuge<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Founded by First Woodstock, Georgia, this ministry provides critical care for wounded and fallen ministers, giving them a safe and loving environment in which to rest and heal. The City of Refuge is a long-term residential program that attempts to meet the needs of ministers and their families by providing housing, childcare counseling, and small group support at no cost to the family.<\/p>\n

All ministry couples can benefit from investing in their marriage by way of a marriage retreat, while others who are more in need of intervention will want to consider clinical counseling or a marriage intensive.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not sure what to do, try calling the Pastor Care Line.<\/p>\n

Pastor Care Line: <\/strong>844-4PASTOR <\/strong> (844-472-7867)<\/h3>\n

Consider this a \u201c911\u201d number for pastors and their spouses who are in crisis. The North American Mission Board financially supports this Focus on the Family care line, which is free and confidential. I personally know these counselors and have seen and heard them work in Colorado Springs. They\u2019re available from 8 a.m.-10 p.m. (EST).<\/p>\n

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Mark Dance<\/h2>\n

@markdance<\/strong><\/p>\n

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After serving as a pastor for 28 years, Mark is now the director of pastoral wellness for Guidestone Financial Resources. He frequently speaks at churches, conferences, and retreats\u2014often with his wife Janet. Read more from him at\u00a0MarkDance.net.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n