{"id":32179,"date":"2022-09-10T15:59:31","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:59:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/5-visible-ways-to-show-your-church-is-working-to-keep-kids-safe\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T15:59:31","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T20:59:31","slug":"5-visible-ways-to-show-your-church-is-working-to-keep-kids-safe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/5-visible-ways-to-show-your-church-is-working-to-keep-kids-safe\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Visible Ways to Show Your Church Is Working to Keep Kids Safe"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-97039\">Nicholas Githiri photo &#8211; Pexels<\/div>\n<p><em>By Joy Allmond<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Your church has trained its leaders on the risks of child sexual abuse. Your volunteers have been made fully aware of reporting procedures and they understand\u2014and abide by\u2014children\u2019s ministry policies (such as the \u201ctwo-adult rule\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>How, then, would a church demonstrate to the parents within the congregation and those visiting the church with their families that they\u2019ve worked to provide a safe environment for children? What would give these visiting families the confidence to keep coming back?<\/p>\n<p>Kimberlee Norris, co-founder of MinistrySafe\u2014a consulting organization that helps churches create safety systems to meet legal standards of care and reduce the risk of child sexual abuse\u2014says there are several ways she advises churches to communicate child safety measures as it relates to abuse.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>1. Have a visual indicator of your church\u2019s commitment to training.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Norris, an attorney, has represented victims in child abuse litigation for more than 25 years, but she\u2019s also a parent.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs a parent, I would want to know what kind of training they\u2019ve had,\u201d she says. \u201cAnd I would want to hear, \u2018We train our staff and volunteers about the risks of child sexual abuse. That training includes misconceptions, facts, prevalence, grooming process, and our staff and volunteers have an awareness of peer to peer sex abuse issues.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<p>One simple\u2014and instant\u2014way she says churches can communicate this is through prominent signage that indicates they\u2019ve gone through the training.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe [MinistrySafe] have stickers for churches who have gone through training to put on their windows that say, \u2018Trained by MinistrySafe,\u2019\u201d says Norris. \u201cIt\u2019s a way for a parent to not only see it, but it spawns conversation between the parents and the staff or volunteers.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>2. Prominently display concrete policies.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Norris says every classroom, hallway, or venue where children\u2019s activities are held on church property should display one-page documents that outline their concrete policies. She calls these \u201cbright line\u201d documents.<\/p>\n<p>This ways, Norris says, parents can see \u201cthe absolutely imperative issues you don\u2019t want people to overlook no matter what.\u201d This not only shows them there are strict policies in place to protect their children; it also shows the parents the church is serious about reminders to their volunteers and staff of these policies.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA bright lines document works especially well for those facilities that have two-way glass,\u201d Norris says. \u201cIt can be printed on both sides and affixed to the glass. It gives the parents something to read while they\u2019re waiting to check in their child.<\/p>\n<p>I typically tell ministries to end that with a reporting requirement blurb, \u201cwe report suspicions, allegations, and neglect.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Some examples of policies Norris says are important to outline on the bright lines document include:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"font-size:21px\">\n<li>The two-adult rule (two adults must be in the room with a child)<\/li>\n<li>Bathroom policies<\/li>\n<li>A summary of reporting rules (such as, \u201cWe report allegations or suspicions of abuse.\u201d)<\/li>\n<li>A statement briefly explaining your leaders have been screened and trained to recognize high-risk responses and behaviors (things often missed by background checks).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"u3e9896935dc5ce6eff22facf0608a5d5-content\">See also&nbsp; The Power of the Ordinary Moments<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>3. Monitor with regularity.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Norris says another outward display of a church\u2019s commitment to preventing child sex abuse is regular monitoring and supervision of staff and volunteers who work in student and child serving programs.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s important to continually review policies and do unscheduled drop-ins,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBy doing this, you\u2019re also communicating to parents that you didn\u2019t just wind this up and let it go\u2014you\u2019re supervising it, monitoring it, and having regular interaction and oversight of your child-serving programs when parents can walk through the halls of your building and can see this.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>4. Create a culture of communication.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Most churches have some sort of online registration process for their children\u2019s and students\u2019 programs. Norris says this is an opportunity for churches to proactively and clearly emphasize their commitment to safety.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have repeatedly created for my clients a one-page email that tells families who they are, what they do, and why they do it, and it references their system,\u201d she says. \u201cIt also links back to additional information on our site.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Through a registration response email\u2014and on the church website\u2014Norris says, is another way to give families confidence that your church takes their child\u2019s protection seriously.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>5. Address sexual abuse from the pulpit.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u201cAny context where parents are hearing about child protection is encouraging to them,\u201d says Norris. \u201cEspecially since statistics say 1 in 4 females or 1 in 6 males will have been sexually abused before they reach 18 years of age.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis means an extraordinary percentage of your congregation are abuse survivors, married to an abuse survivor, or are the parents of abuse survivors.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She recommends pastors address this issue from the pulpit at least once a year because it\u2019s important for the church to hear that \u201cthis is a real issue \u2026 it impacts individuals in our congregation\u2014and here\u2019s what we have in place to address this risk in our ministry.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Norris also recommends recording such a message in case anyone asks.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn any context where you\u2019re communicating as a ministry what you\u2019re doing to protect children\u2014whether it\u2019s on your website, in writing, or when people apply to volunteer to work with kids, you\u2019re telling them you believe the church should be the safest place where a child can spend time,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color:#f2f2f2;color:#32373c\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-profile-box square gb-has-avatar gb-font-size-18 gb-block-profile gb-profile-columns\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-avatar-wrap\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-image-wrap\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-content-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-profile-name\" style=\"color:#32373c\">Joy Allmond<\/h2>\n<p class=\"gb-profile-title\" style=\"color:#32373c\"><strong>@joyallmond<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-text\">\n<p>Joy is the executive communications manager at Lifeway.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"gb-social-links\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h3>Background Checks for Churches<\/h3>\n<p>Starting at only $10<\/p>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  Most Pastors Say Sexually Abusive Ministers Should Step Down Permanently  3 Ways to Reach Non-Religious People in Your Community <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nicholas Githiri photo &#8211; Pexels By Joy Allmond Your church has trained its leaders on the risks of child sexual abuse. Your volunteers have been made fully aware of reporting procedures and they understand\u2014and abide by\u2014children\u2019s ministry policies (such as the \u201ctwo-adult rule\u201d). How, then, would a church demonstrate to the parents within the congregation &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/5-visible-ways-to-show-your-church-is-working-to-keep-kids-safe\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;5 Visible Ways to Show Your Church Is Working to Keep Kids Safe&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32179","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sermons"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32179","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32179"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32179\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32179"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32179"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32179"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}