{"id":32294,"date":"2022-09-10T16:03:53","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:03:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/4-traits-of-an-effective-small-group-discussion-question\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T16:03:53","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:03:53","slug":"4-traits-of-an-effective-small-group-discussion-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/4-traits-of-an-effective-small-group-discussion-question\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Traits of an Effective Small Group Discussion Question"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-96491\">Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash<\/div>\n<p><em>By Lynn Pryor<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m lousy with math. My extended family assumes that\u2019s why I married an accountant.<\/p>\n<p>High school algebra frustrated me. I just wanted the teacher to tell me if my answer was right (or more likely wrong).<\/p>\n<p>What I didn\u2019t want to hear was, \u201cSo, Lynn, why do you think that answer is right?\u201d <em>Sigh.<\/em> I would have to reason through the steps to justify my answer.<\/p>\n<p>What my teacher did was nothing new. Greek philosopher Socrates, was known for teaching by asking questions.<\/p>\n<p>We often think the quickest way to learn is to read a book or sit through a lecture, but Socrates would ask his pupils questions. The questions forced them to think critically and come up with their own insights.<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Teach by asking <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Asking a good question that doesn\u2019t have a readily obvious answer requires group members to think. And when they think, they process and internalize the truth of Scripture.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s admit it: We\u2019ve all sat through a Bible study lecture we heard but didn\u2019t really <em>think<\/em> about. Questions will challenge your group to think\u2014and get them talking about what they\u2019re thinking.<\/p>\n<p>Consider these questions tied to a study of James 1:1-4:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"has-normal-font-size\">\n<li>What pressures squeeze the joy out of life?<\/li>\n<li>What keeps you from reacting joyfully when the pressure of life feels overwhelming?<\/li>\n<li>What emotions did you feel during your most recent trial?<\/li>\n<li>During your most recent trial, how did you see God walking with you?<\/li>\n<li>How have you been encouraged by the endurance of others during trials?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Now, note some traits of these questions:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. They don\u2019t call for a single right answer.<\/strong> Questions with only one correct answer will feel like a school test question.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. They don\u2019t have an obvious answer. <\/strong>Group members may need to ponder it for a moment before they answer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. They don\u2019t call for a short answer.<\/strong> In others, they\u2019re designed to spark a conversation.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"udde5c4b00e2fe7bdef846ba16ca12e7d-content\">See also&nbsp; Why Pastors Must Acknowledge Their Own Needs<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>4. They call for a personal response or answer.<\/strong> I love questions that begin \u201cWhat do you think \u2026?\u201d Even if you ask, <em>\u201cWhat do you think Paul meant when he said \u2026,\u201d<\/em> you\u2019re not asking for one right answer; you\u2019re asking what they <em>think<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>You might be thinking,<em> Isn\u2019t that dangerous? What happens if their discussion and conclusions move away from biblical teaching? <\/em>Your role as the group leader is to keep them tuned to what the Scripture says.<\/p>\n<p>Give the group the passage\u2019s context and background as necessary, and guide them to think through the Scripture. But never tell them something they can discover on their own.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>We remember best what we discover on our own<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably had this experience: In your own Bible reading, you read a passage that you\u2019ve read and heard preached a dozen times before.<\/p>\n<p>But on this particular morning, it\u2019s like you\u2019re reading it for the first time. The light comes on. You have fresh insight, one you discovered on your own. It\u2019s an \u201caha\u201d moment, and those are the things we remember best.<\/p>\n<p>When we tell our group what the Bible says or how to apply it, we rob them of their own \u201caha\u201d moments. On the other hand, a good question makes them think the passage through, and we lead them to create their own \u201caha\u201d moments.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color:#f2f2f2;color:#32373c\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-profile-box square gb-has-avatar gb-font-size-18 gb-block-profile gb-profile-columns\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-avatar-wrap\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-image-wrap\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-content-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-profile-name\" style=\"color:#32373c\">Lynn Pryor<\/h2>\n<p class=\"gb-profile-title\" style=\"color:#32373c\"><strong>@lynnpryor<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-text\">\n<p>Lynn leads Lifeway&#8217;s ongoing adult Bible study team that develops and produces\u00a0Bible Studies for Life and\u00a0MasterWork Bible study curriculums for adults.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"gb-social-links\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h3>Leading Small Groups: How to Gather, Launch, Lead, and Multiply Your Small Group<\/h3>\n<p>Chris Surratt<\/p>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  What Do Pastors Believe About the End Times?  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What I didn\u2019t want to hear was, \u201cSo, Lynn, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/4-traits-of-an-effective-small-group-discussion-question\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;4 Traits of an Effective Small Group Discussion Question&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sermons"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32294"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32294\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}