{"id":32339,"date":"2022-09-10T16:05:45","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:05:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/5-ways-to-mitigate-ministry-demands\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T16:05:45","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:05:45","slug":"5-ways-to-mitigate-ministry-demands","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/5-ways-to-mitigate-ministry-demands\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Mitigate Ministry Demands"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-96267\">Photo by Ben White on Unsplash<\/div>\n<p><em>By Chris Hefner<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019d like you to be Superman.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That was the answer a search committee member gave me to the question, \u201cWhat are your expectations of a pastor?\u201d He qualified the answer by saying that the previous pastor had done so much for the church and the community.<\/p>\n<p>The search committee member admitted he was being a little tongue-in-cheek. Nevertheless, his statement was telling, and I didn&#8217;t become their pastor. I\u2019ve thought about that conversation several times since then.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s probably true that some church members have unrealistic expectations for their pastor. But it\u2019s also true that we sometimes set unrealistic expectations for ourselves. We try to do too much or carry too great a load.<\/p>\n<p>Ministry is often non-eventful, but it can sometimes be overwhelming. A recent day in my ministry looked like this:<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<ul class=\"has-normal-font-size\">\n<li>4:40 a.m. Alarm went off.<\/li>\n<li>5:15 a.m. Left the house.<\/li>\n<li>6 a.m. Visited a church member before their rather serious intestinal surgery.<\/li>\n<li>6:45 a.m. Visited another church member at another hospital.<\/li>\n<li>9 a.m. Arrived at the other end of the state for a denominational meeting.<\/li>\n<li>10:30 a.m. Received a phone call about the sudden death of a church member.<\/li>\n<li>1 p.m. Expedited the meeting and left for home with plans to visit with the family of the member who died.<\/li>\n<li>3 p.m. Received a call from my dad\u2019s neighbor that my dad had fallen and she was going to call an ambulance.<\/li>\n<li>4 p.m. Met my dad and the ambulance at the hospital.<\/li>\n<li>11:30 p.m. Arrived home after my dad was given a hospital room for extra tests.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This day was not typical, but I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve had similar days. I was never able to visit the family who had a sudden death that day.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t share this for your pity or praise. My motivation is simply to make the following point: I\u2019m not superman. I can\u2019t possibly wear all the hats and do all the ministry my church needs.<\/p>\n<p>I need others and so do you. Here are five ways this realization should work itself out in pastoral ministry.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>1. Don\u2019t try to be Superman<\/strong>.<\/h3>\n<p>You can\u2019t do it all and you shouldn\u2019t try. When I try to do everything, I usually mess things up and create tension.<\/p>\n<p>Discover your ministry strengths and weaknesses. Share ministry with others, especially in areas where you\u2019re weak.<\/p>\n<p>A shared ministry may not be good for your ego\u2014we like to think we can do more than we actually can\u2014but it\u2019s very good for your church and God\u2019s kingdom.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"u004f6906ca56fa6ce39d042c7b33e4c6-content\">See also&nbsp; 4 Changes I&#8217;d Make If I Could Start Ministry Over<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>2. Rely on others<\/strong>.<\/h3>\n<p>Two staff members and at least two other church members visited with the family who had a sudden death. I couldn\u2019t be present, but our church was.<\/p>\n<p>Reactive ministry is necessary and important. But so is proactive ministry (making disciples, reading, studying, leading, evangelizing, and planning ministry).<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re going to do significant proactive ministry, you\u2019re going to have to rely on others for both proactive and reactive ministry.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>3. Make time to rest and recharge<\/strong>.<\/h3>\n<p>A pastor friend of mine told me recently he struggled to admit he needed rest and time away. Even Jesus took time away to rest and recharge.<\/p>\n<p>If Jesus rested, so should we. Don\u2019t be ashamed of taking a day off, enjoying a holiday, or going to bed early enough to get a good night\u2019s sleep.<\/p>\n<p>When we rest, we and our ministries are better off for it.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>4. Be human<\/strong>.<\/h3>\n<p>Admit your weaknesses and struggles. We have to be careful in how open we allow ourselves to be, but we should be vulnerable at times.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the people in our congregations see us from a distance as we stand at the pulpit. That means they often see the best of us\u2014which is sometimes not the <em>real<\/em> us.<\/p>\n<p>For this reason, it\u2019s not surprising that church members can expect us to be better than we actually are. Wisely sharing your weaknesses will help your congregation take you off the pedestal and remind them of your need for others.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>5. Be honest<\/strong>.<\/h3>\n<p>Tell your church leaders when you need help.<\/p>\n<p>Paul stated that a primary role of a pastor is to equip others for ministry. It\u2019s not my job or your job to do <em>everything <\/em>in ministry.<\/p>\n<p>Be honest by building adequate margin into your ministry and share responsibility for ministering to others.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color:#f2f2f2;color:#32373c\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-profile-box square gb-has-avatar gb-font-size-18 gb-block-profile gb-profile-columns\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-avatar-wrap\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-image-wrap\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-content-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-profile-name\" style=\"color:#32373c\">Chris Hefner<\/h2>\n<p class=\"gb-profile-title\" style=\"color:#32373c\"><strong>@chrishefner<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-text\">\n<p>Chris is senior pastor at Wilkesboro Baptist Church in Wilkesboro, North Carolina. He\u2019s also professor of Western Civilization and Apologetics at Fruitland Baptist Bible College.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"gb-social-links\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h3>What&#8217;s Best Next<br \/> How the Gospel Transforms the Way You Get Things Done<\/h3>\n<p>Matthew Aaron Perman<\/p>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  What Do Pastors Believe About the End Times?  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