{"id":32381,"date":"2022-09-10T16:07:23","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:07:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/7-pastoral-pet-peeves\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T16:07:23","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:07:23","slug":"7-pastoral-pet-peeves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/7-pastoral-pet-peeves\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Pastoral Pet Peeves"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\"><\/div>\n<p><em>By Mark Dance<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m embarrassed to say it didn\u2019t take me long to write this post. I\u2019m curious to see if you agree with these pet peeves and am&nbsp;interested to hear some of your own.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Church announcements<\/h3>\n<p>Pastors get frustrated when they get last minute announcement requests.&nbsp;Pre-service videos also count as announcements, so they need to be previewed and considered when planning a weekend service.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Work closely with your worship leader to intentionally start a worship service well. <\/p>\n<h3>2. Walking out during the invitation<\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019ve never understood how greeters and teachers think getting a head start to their ministry post is worth distracting people who are on the verge of making eternal decisions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A lesser crime, but no less distracting, is walking in late during the middle of a worship set. My best response has been a direct appeal to these leaders, as opposed to calling them out from the stage.<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<h3>3. Long meetings<\/h3>\n<p>All meetings are over after 90 minutes, regardless of whether there are still bodies in the room. Morale and focus begin to fade after the first hour, so be efficient with your time. <\/p>\n<p>Pastor, if you want to lead or attend meetings that end at a reasonable time, work it out with the chairperson beforehand in private. Stay consistent until this becomes a normal part of your church culture.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Cheesy preacherisms<\/h3>\n<p>This one is directed toward us. People tire easily of conference clones. Here are a few examples to prime your pump:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>God is good, all the time.<\/li>\n<li>Let\u2019s keep the main thing the main thing.<\/li>\n<li>That\u2019s a good place for an amen.<\/li>\n<li>Where God guides, God provides.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ready to say, \u201cUncle?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Make sure you know the difference between a courtesy laugh (or amen) and the real thing. Just because it worked at student camp doesn\u2019t mean it transfers to a multi-generational crowd.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"u79916b8284cb9015df505e12de8c22bf-content\">See also&nbsp; 8 Ways to Persevere in Ministry<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3>5. Pastor search committees<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s ironic this team represents the sharpest people in the pews because they often come across as dysfunctional dreamers.<\/p>\n<p>Whether search teams have been trained or not, they\u2019ll generally do whatever they want\u2014whenever they want\u2014while pastoral candidates are left scratching their heads.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t even have a suggestion for this peeve, other than to keep scratching your heads.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Weekend texts <\/h3>\n<p>Email assumes the recipient will check it when he or she is available. Texts on the other hand, presume you\u2019re always available. If you\u2019re always available for your members, you\u2019ve blown up any biblical boundaries God created for you and your family.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Manage your home and church better by learning when to turn off or mute your phone.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Social media snipers <\/h3>\n<p>A good shepherd goes where his people are, as well as where the unchurched are. Your encouraging voice needs to be heard outside of the church as well as inside. <\/p>\n<p>Some pastors avoid social media altogether because of a few rogue abusers. Instead, unfollow or block those morons.&nbsp;Social media and technology are not the problem\u2014sin is. <\/p>\n<p>Jesus was a friend of sinners\u2013we should be too. Even the ones in our pews.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color:#f2f2f2;color:#32373c\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-profile-box square gb-has-avatar gb-font-size-18 gb-block-profile gb-profile-columns\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-avatar-wrap\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-image-wrap\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-content-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-profile-name\" style=\"color:#32373c\">Mark Dance<\/h2>\n<p class=\"gb-profile-title\" style=\"color:#32373c\"><strong>@markdance<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-text\">\n<p>After serving as a pastor for 28 years, Mark is now the director of pastoral wellness for Guidestone Financial Resources. He frequently speaks at churches, conferences, and retreats\u2014often with his wife Janet. Read more from him at\u00a0MarkDance.net.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"gb-social-links\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h3>The Pastor&#8217;s Ministry<br \/> Biblical Priorities for Faithful Shepherds<\/h3>\n<p>Brian Croft<\/p>\n<p>  FIND OUT MORE <\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-website yarpp-template-thumbnails'>\n<h3>Related posts:<\/h3>\n<div class=\"yarpp-thumbnails-horizontal\">  What Do Pastors Believe About the End Times?  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