{"id":32465,"date":"2022-09-10T16:10:38","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:10:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/why-my-wife-and-i-chose-to-adopt-embryos\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T16:10:38","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:10:38","slug":"why-my-wife-and-i-chose-to-adopt-embryos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/why-my-wife-and-i-chose-to-adopt-embryos\/","title":{"rendered":"Why My Wife and I Chose to Adopt Embryos"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p><em>By Aaron Wilson<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Before my wife delivered our twins, they were first delivered by FedEx.<\/p>\n<p>In what probably made for a peculiar package, my children were shipped in a state of suspended animation\u2014frozen in liquid nitrogen that kept them alive until my wife could give birth to them four years later.<\/p>\n<p>While this may sound like the introduction to a science fiction novel, it\u2019s a real-life story. My wife and I chose to grow our family through a process called embryo adoption in an attempt to honor preborn life.<\/p>\n<p>While embryo adoption can be confusing, it\u2019s an important need facing America and other countries that use assisted reproductive technology to create life outside the womb.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>What is embryo adoption?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Embryo adoption is a response to a dilemma often caused by in-vitro fertilization (IVF)\u2014a reproductive procedure that combines sperm and eggs in a lab to create embryos.<\/p>\n<div class='code-block code-block-1' style='margin: 8px 0;clear: both'> <\/div>\n<p>During IVF, fertility clinics often create more embryos than will be transferred to a womb. This is because not all of the harvested eggs will achieve fertilization through IVF and fertility clinics want to ensure they have enough embryos to transfer.<\/p>\n<p>Fertility clinics may also create excess embryos in order to select ones for transfer that are deemed more likely to achieve pregnancy. This typically leaves parents who\u2019ve gone through IVF with an important ethical decision of what to do with their remaining embryos that weren\u2019t transferred.<\/p>\n<p>Rather than destroy these embryos or leave them frozen in development for an indefinite amount of time, some couples choose to place their embryos for adoption.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Snowflake babies<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>In embryo adoption, an adopting mother gives already-created embryos a chance at birth by allowing them to be thawed and transferred to her uterus. If one or more of the embryos implant, the adopting mother then carries and gives birth to the child or children although she is not genetically related to them.<\/p>\n<p>Some people refer to this as pre-birth adoption and call the adopted embryos snowflake babies\u2014a reference to their small size, frozen state, and unique nature.<\/p>\n<p>Our snowflake babies were shipped as frozen embryos from a fertility clinic in Washington State to the National Embryo Donation Center in Knoxville, Tennessee, where we adopted them in 2011.<\/p>\n<p>Here are four of the most significant reasons we chose to adopt embryos.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Embryo adoption is pro-life<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>My wife and I use the words embryo and child interchangeable because we subscribe to the worldview that life begins at fertilization.<\/p>\n<p>This view is shared by Christian organizations and groups who have written about the need for couples to adopt frozen embryos, such as Focus on the Family, the Christian Medical &amp; Dental Associations, The Gospel Coalition, and the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission (ERLC) of the Southern Baptist Convention.<\/p>\n<p>Russell Moore, president of the ERLC and a supporter of embryo adoption, says children frozen in cryogenic containers already exist as persons created in the image of God.<\/p>\n<p>While the U.S. government doesn\u2019t recognize these embryos as children, Christians can honor their personhood by offering them the hospitality of a womb and a place in a family.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Embryo adoption is needed<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>In an article from 2014, CNN reported a low-end estimate that hundreds of thousands of frozen embryos already exist in the United States. Of these, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services reports as many as 60,000 embryos could be made available for adoption.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;margin-top:0em;margin-bottom:1em\">\n<div class=\"centered-text-area\">\n<div class=\"centered-text\" style=\"float: left\">\n<div class=\"u42c3db4b87825b3d918d4320343296bb-content\">See also&nbsp; 3 Practical Steps for Reaching the Mission Field in Your Neighborhood<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ctaButton\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>An awareness of these figures can lead to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>More people thinking about the ethical implications of using assisted reproductive technology.<\/li>\n<li>Parents who have remaining embryos on ice learning about the life-affirming options available to them.<\/li>\n<li>More couples pursuing embryo adoption and granting already-conceived children a way out of the freezer.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Jesus was adopted as an embryo<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>One of the more eye-opening moments for my wife and me as we considered growing our family was the realization that Christ\u2019s incarnation involved a unique form of embryo adoption.<\/p>\n<p>Matthew 1:18 became an important verse for us in this regard. The passage records that before Joseph and Mary came together, she was \u201cfound to be with child through the Holy Spirit\u201d (ESV). Two verses later, God also tells Joseph, \u201cwhat is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This means Jesus didn\u2019t leave His throne in heaven for a manger\u2014at least not directly as the popular phrase suggests. Nor did Christ first enter humanity Christmas morning as a baby. Instead, Scripture says Jesus\u2019 incarnation began nine months earlier inside a womb as a human embryo.<\/p>\n<p>Is Matthew 1:18-20 an explicit proof text stating Christians should adopt embryos? No. However, the passage does support the biblical worldview that human life begins before birth. Even though Jesus wasn\u2019t biologically related to Joseph, the poor tradesman still chose to adopt the Lord in embryonic form and raise Jesus as his own.<\/p>\n<p>Since the Lord of the universe humbled Himself as an embryo to save humanity on His way to the cross, it seems right for Christ-followers to support embryo adoption as a way to honor the humanity of preborn life in need of a womb.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Embryo adoption is always successful in God\u2019s eyes<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Our twins will turn 7 this year\u2014developmentally, that is. Counting their time frozen, they\u2019ve actually been alive for more than a decade.<\/p>\n<p>As much as we enjoy raising our twins, we also grieve the deaths of other children we adopted as embryos who didn\u2019t survive the transfer process. (The live birth rate average with embryo adoption is 1 in 3 attempts.)<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t, however, view those adoptions as failures. My wife and I knew the odds of achieving live birth through embryo adoption but went into the process believing God would be glorified regardless of the outcome since frozen children would still receive an opportunity at birth.<\/p>\n<p>You see, embryo adoption isn\u2019t merely a fertility treatment that eyes birth as the sole goal. While infertility is often a catalyst that leads many couples to adopt embryos, fertile couples also choose to pursue embryo adoption as a way to live out their pro-life values.<\/p>\n<p>With hundreds of thousands of embryos suspended in animation in the U.S., and more and more couples turning to IVF every day, my wife and I share our story in the hope embryo adoption will become an important issue on the radar of everyone who professes the belief life begins at fertilization.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color:#f2f2f2;color:#32373c\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-profile-box square gb-has-avatar gb-font-size-18 gb-block-profile gb-profile-columns\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-avatar-wrap\">\n<div class=\"gb-profile-image-wrap\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-column gb-profile-content-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-profile-name\" style=\"color:#32373c\">Aaron Wilson<\/h2>\n<p class=\"gb-profile-title\" style=\"color:#32373c\"><strong>@AaronBWilson26<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"gb-profile-text\">\n<p>Aaron is associate editor of LifewayResearch.com.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<ul class=\"gb-social-links\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><em>Watch a short BBC News video about his family\u2019s journey through embryo adoption.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"su-box su-box-style-default\" id=\"\" style=\"border-color:#000000;border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"su-box-title\" style=\"background-color:#333333;color:#FFFFFF;border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px\">Dig Deeper at Lifeway.com<\/div>\n<div class=\"su-box-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"border-bottom-left-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"one-third first\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"two-thirds\">\n<h3>The Gospel &amp; Adoption<\/h3>\n<p>Russell Moore &amp; Andrew T. 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