{"id":32927,"date":"2022-09-10T16:28:41","date_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:28:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/women-distrust-church-on-abortion\/"},"modified":"2022-09-10T16:28:41","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T21:28:41","slug":"women-distrust-church-on-abortion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/women-distrust-church-on-abortion\/","title":{"rendered":"Women Distrust Church on Abortion"},"content":{"rendered":"
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By Lisa Cannon Green<\/em><\/p>\n

Many women with unplanned pregnancies go silently from the church pew to the abortion clinic, convinced the church would gossip rather than help, a new study by Lifeway Research shows.<\/p>\n

More than 4 in 10 women who have had an abortion were churchgoers when they ended a pregnancy, researchers found in a survey sponsored by Care Net, a nonprofit organization supporting more than 1,100 pregnancy centers across North America.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat\u2019s a huge opportunity for the church to have an impact on those decisions,\u201d said Scott McConnell, vice president of Lifeway Research.<\/p>\n

But only 7 percent of women discussed their abortion decision with anyone at church. Three-fourths (76 percent) say the church had no influence on their decision to terminate a pregnancy.<\/p>\n

The results point to a church culture that often lacks grace, McConnell said. Among women who have had an abortion:<\/p>\n

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  • Two-thirds (65 percent) say church members judge single women who are pregnant.<\/li>\n
  • A majority (54 percent) thinks churches oversimplify decisions about pregnancy options.<\/li>\n
  • Fewer than half (41 percent) believe churches are prepared to help with decisions about unwanted pregnancies.<\/li>\n
  • Only 3 in 10 think churches give accurate advice about pregnancy options.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    \u201cWomen are perceiving judgment from the church, and that\u2019s probably partly because there are clear teachings in the Bible including about how and why we make judgments\u201d McConnell said. \u201cHowever, if they don\u2019t start experiencing something different than what they\u2019ve seen in the past, these numbers aren\u2019t going to change.\u201d<\/p>\n

    Christian connections<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    The church has connections with many women who choose abortion, Care Net and Lifeway Research found. In the survey of 1,038 women who have had abortions, 70 percent claim a Christian religious preference, and 43 percent report attending church monthly or more at the time of an abortion.<\/p>\n

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    But distrust of the church\u2019s response is widespread, the survey shows. Nearly two-thirds (64 percent) believe church members are more likely to gossip about a woman considering abortion than to help her understand options.<\/p>\n

    When weighing an abortion decision, women say they expected or experienced judgment (33 percent) or condemnation (26 percent) from a church far more than caring (16 percent) or helpfulness (14 percent).<\/p>\n

    Judgmental attitudes among even a few people in a church can discourage women from seeking help, McConnell said. \u201cThey\u2019ll perceive everybody feels that way.\u201d<\/p>\n

    Only 38 percent of women who have had an abortion consider church a safe place to discuss pregnancy options including parenting, abortion, and adoption. And while 25 percent say they would recommend a friend or family member discuss an unplanned pregnancy with someone at church, more than twice as many (54 percent) say they would not recommend it.<\/p>\n

    Culture of silence<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Women keep silent in church both before and after ending a pregnancy, Lifeway Research found.<\/p>\n

    More than half of churchgoers who have had an abortion (52 percent) say no one at church knows it. Nearly half of women who have had an abortion (49 percent) say pastors\u2019 teachings on forgiveness don\u2019t seem to apply to terminated pregnancies.<\/p>\n

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    \u201cThat tells you the environment of the church,\u201d McConnell said. \u201cYou can\u2019t say you\u2019ve had an abortion, you can\u2019t say you\u2019re considering one\u2014it\u2019s completely taboo to discuss.<\/p>\n

    \u201cBut when a woman is willing to publicly acknowledge she\u2019s had an abortion in the past, she will sometimes be approached by several other women in the church who\u2019ve never been willing to share with anybody that they too have had an abortion. It\u2019s incredibly freeing for them.\u201d<\/p>\n

    Church attendance makes a difference for many<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Even among regular churchgoers, 52 percent of women who had abortions say the church had no influence on their decision. However, women attending church at least once a month were more likely to discuss their abortion decision with someone at church (16 percent) than those who rarely or never attend (2 percent).<\/p>\n

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    Regular churchgoers who had an abortion are also much more likely than those who rarely or never attend to say they anticipated or experienced positive church responses such as caring (31 percent vs. 7 percent), helpfulness (28 percent vs. 7 percent), and love (25 percent vs. 6 percent).<\/p>\n

    \u201cWhile much work needs to be done to equip the church to help women and men with their pregnancy decisions, there are positive signs that many churches will be receptive to efforts to implement programming that addresses this need,\u201d said Roland C. Warren, president and CEO of Care Net.<\/p>\n

    \u201cThe survey shows that frequent churchgoers \u2013 people who know the church best \u2013 were significantly more likely to believe the church is prepared to provide loving, compassionate support for those considering abortion, especially those attending evangelical churches,\u201d said Warren.<\/p>\n

    Supportive responses from the church are key, McConnell said.<\/p>\n

    \u201cFor most women with an unwanted pregnancy, if nobody is willing to say, \u2018We\u2019re going to help you through this,\u2019 it\u2019s hard for them to rationally say they should keep the child.\u201d<\/p>\n

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    Lisa Cannon Green<\/h2>\n

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    Lisa Cannon Green is a former senior writer for Lifeway Research.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n