(Adapted from Chapter 1, How Happiness Happens by Max Lucado)<\/p>\n
How long has it been since you felt a level of contagious, infectious, unflappable, unstoppable happiness? Maybe your answer is \u201cI feel that way all the time.\u201d If so, God bless you. (And consider passing on this article to someone who needs it.) For many, perhaps most of us, the answer is \u201cWell, it\u2019s been a while. I used to be happy, but then life took its toll.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThe disease took my health.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThe economy took my job.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThe jerk took my heart.\u201d<\/p>\n
And as a result something pilfered our happiness. It can seem such a fragile thing, this joy. Here one day. Tomorrow scattered by the winds of a storm.<\/p>\n
Still we keep searching for it, longing for it, this sense of contentment and well-being. Worldwide, people profess that happiness is their most cherished goal.[i] The most popular class in the three-century history of Yale University is on happiness.[ii] Magazine covers promise everything from sexual happiness to financial contentment. I googled \u201chappy hour,\u201d and in one second seventy-five million options invited my click.<\/p>\n
Marketing companies get this. Television commercials make grand promises: Want to be happy? Buy our hand cream. Want some joy? Sleep on this mattress. Desire a dose of delight? Eat at this restaurant, drive this car, wear this dress. Nearly every advertising strategy portrays the image of a joy-filled person, even the advertisement for PreparationH. Before using the product the guy scowls as he sits. Afterward he is the image of joy. Perhaps the H stands for happy?<\/p>\n
Happiness. Everyone craves it.<\/p>\n
And everyone benefits from it. Happy people enjoy higher odds of a strong marriage, lower odds of divorce, and superior work performance. They are also healthier, resulting from a bolstered immune system.[iii] In one study researchers found a correlation between happiness and fatter pocketbooks.[iv] An analysis of twenty-five studies indicated that happy people are more effective leaders than Debbie Downers.[v] Happiness, it turns out, helps everyone.<\/p>\n
But fewer people are finding it. Only one-third of Americans surveyed said they were happy. In the nine-year history of the Harris Poll Survey of American Happiness, the highest index was 35 percent. This means a cloud of perpetual grayness overshadows two out of three people.[vi] Smiles are in short supply. By some estimates clinical depression is ten times more rampant now than it was a century ago.[vii] The World Health Organization forecasts that by the year 2020 \u201cdepression will become the second leading cause of disease worldwide.\u201d[viii]<\/p>\n
The oft-used front door to happiness is the one described by the advertising companies: acquire, retire, and aspire to drive faster, dress trendier, and drink more. Happiness depends on what you hang in your closet, park in your garage, mount on your trophy wall, deposit in your bank account, experience in your bedroom, wear on your wedding finger, or serve at your dining table. Happiness happens when you lose the weight, get the date, find the mate, or discover your fate. It\u2019s wide, this front door to happiness.<\/p>\n
Yet for all its promise it fails to deliver.<\/p>\n
There is another option. It requires no credit card, monthly mortgage, or stroke of fortune. It demands no airline tickets or hotel reservations. It stipulates no PhD, MD, or blue-blood pedigree. Age, ethnicity, and gender are not factors. Balmy climates, blue skies, and Botox are not mandated. No resources for psychoanalysis, plastic surgery, or hormone therapy? No problem. You don\u2019t have to change jobs, change cities, change looks, or change neighborhoods.<\/p>\n
But you might need to change doors.<\/p>\n
The motto on the front door says \u201cHappiness happens when you get.\u201d The sign on the lesser-used back door counters \u201cHappiness happens when you give.\u201d<\/p>\n
Doing good does good for the doer.<\/p>\n
You and I indwell a lonely planet. Broken hearts populate every office building. Discouragement mummifies countless lives. The world is desperate, yes, desperate, for a cavalry of kindness. We cannot solve every problem in society, but we can bring smiles to a few faces. And who knows? If you brighten your corner of the world and I do the same in mine, a quiet revolution of joy might break out.<\/p>\n
Excerpted from How Happiness Happens<\/em> by Max Lucado Copyright \u00a9 2019 by Thomas Nelson Books. Used by permission of Thomas Nelson. www.thomasnelson.com. www.MaxLucado.com<\/p>\n<\/p>\n [i]<\/p>\n Kathy Caprino, \u201cThe Top 10 Things People Want in Life but Can\u2019t Seem to Get,\u201d Huffington Post, updated December 6, 2017, https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/kathy-caprino\/the-top-10-things-people-_2_b_9564982.html. <\/p>\n [ii]<\/p>\n David Shimer, \u201cYale\u2019s Most Popular Class Ever: Happiness,\u201d New York Times, January 26, 2018, https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/01\/26\/nyregion\/at-yale-class-on-happiness-draws-huge-crowd-laurie-santos.html. <\/p>\n [iii]<\/p>\n Sonja Lyubomirsky, The How of Happiness: A Practical Approach to Getting the Life You Want (London: Piatkus, 2007), 25. <\/p>\n [iv]<\/p>\n Ed Diener, Carol Nickerson, Richard E. Lucas, Ed Sandvik, \u201cDispositional Affect and Job Outcomes,\u201d Social Indicators Research 59, no. 3 (September 2002): 229\u201359, https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1023\/A:1019672513984. <\/p>\n [v]<\/p>\n Shana Lebowitz, \u201cA New Study Finds a Key Component of Effective Leadership Is Surprisingly Simple,\u201d Business Insider, August 19, 2015, http:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/why-happy-people-are-better-leaders-2015-8. <\/p>\n [vi]<\/p>\n Alexandra Sifferlin, \u201cHere\u2019s How Happy Americans Are Right Now,\u201d Time, July 26, 2017, http:\/\/time.com\/4871720\/how-happy-are-americans\/. <\/p>\n [vii]<\/p>\n Lyubomirsky, The How of Happiness, 37. <\/p>\n [viii]<\/p>\n Pamela Cowan, \u201cDepression Will Be the Second Leading Cause of Disease by 2020: WHO,\u201d Calgary Herald, October 7, 2010, http:\/\/www.calgaryherald.com\/health\/Depression+will+second+leading+cause+disease+2020\/3640325\/story.html.<\/p>\n (Adapted from Chapter 1, How Happiness Happens by Max Lucado) How long has it been since you felt a level of contagious, infectious, unflappable, unstoppable happiness? Maybe your answer is \u201cI feel that way all the time.\u201d If so, God bless you. (And consider passing on this article to someone who needs it.) For many, … Continue reading “Are You Happy and You Know It?”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sermons"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33170","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33170"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33170\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}