In a recent post at his website, Chuck Lawless discusses reasons why we often avoid doing pastoral care. Here are six of those reasons:<\/p>\n
\u201cLet\u2019s face it, church leaders. Some of us much prefer preaching over pastoral care. Others love pastoral care, but not all of us. Some do it because our role demands it, but that doesn\u2019t mean we always enjoy it. If that\u2019s who you are, use this post to check your heart. You might even be honest with your church and ask them to pray for you about this responsibility. Consider these reasons some of us don’t love this role:<\/p>\n
It raises some of the toughest questions.<\/strong> How do you explain the death of a child? The loss of a home to natural disaster? The breakup of a marriage? How do you direct the church member who\u2019d rather die than\u00a0undergo rigorous painful treatments again? How do you help that young man dealing with same sex attraction?<\/p>\n It can present awkward situations.<\/strong> Think about it. Entering a hospital room with the smell of a recent bowel movement. Counseling a church member who\u2019s weeping on the floor. Leading the funeral of a deceased person you didn\u2019t know. Officiating at a wedding where the bride\u2019s parents aren\u2019t speaking to each other. If you serve as a pastor long enough, you\u2019ll face situations you never considered.<\/p>\n It\u2019s never ending. <\/strong>As long as we minister to people, we\u2019ll always have some other need to meet. The needs are there when we wake up and when we go to bed. A break is just that \u2013 only a break.<\/p>\n If you mess it up, it can harm a relationship. <\/strong>A church member who forgives a poor sermon may not forgive you for not visiting her mother in the hospital. Make a mistake in a wedding, and it\u2019ll likely be on video for everyone \u2013 in particular, the frustrated couple \u2013 to remember forever. Pastoral care wounds can leave deep scars.<\/p>\n It can be time consuming. <\/strong>Few actions of pastoral care are simple. A hospital visit requires driving and visiting time. Funerals and weddings demand days more than hours. Counseling can consume your schedule if you let it. Ministering to people just takes time.<\/p>\n It pushes emotionally cautious pastors to their limits.<\/strong> Pastoral care might mean hugs . . . and tears . . . and confession . . . and grief . . . and personal reflection . . . and gut-wrenching, heart-level conversations. It takes some pastors to depths they seldom comfortably go.\u201d [Click to read the full article, including two additional reasons]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n In a recent post at his website, Chuck Lawless discusses reasons why we often avoid doing pastoral care. Here are six of those reasons: \u201cLet\u2019s face it, church leaders. Some of us much prefer preaching over pastoral care. Others love pastoral care, but not all of us. Some do it because our role demands it, … Continue reading “8 Reasons We Avoid Pastoral Care\u00a0“<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33412","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sermons"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33412","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33412"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33412\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33412"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33412"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biblia.work\/sermons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33412"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}