Frances Schaeffer<\/b><\/p>\n
Several years ago in an interview during his battle with cancer, theologian Francis Schaeffer said, \u201cThe only way to be foolishly happy in this world is to be young enough, well enough, and have money enough\u2014and not give a care about other people. But as soon as you don\u2019t have any of the first three, or if you have compassion for the weeping world around you, then it is impossible to have the foolish kind of happiness that I believe some Christians present as Christianity.\u201d<\/p>\n
What is our greatest need in life? Is it to be happy? We may long for a change in our circumstances, and sometimes that\u2019s what we get. But a changed life is our deepest need. Changed circumstances may make us happier, but a changed life will make us better, for it will make us like Christ.<\/p>\n
Our Daily Bread, July 23, 1997<\/p>\n
Meeting Ideal Goals<\/b><\/p>\n
Americans were asked how close they are to meeting their ideal goals; analysts at KRC Research used the answers to develop measures of happiness they call \u201cquality quotients.\u201d Answers above 8 indicate general happiness; those below 7 denote relative unhappiness.<\/p>\n
Priority<\/p>\n
Percent Who Rank Issue as One of the Top Three Priorities in Life<\/p>\n
Quality Quotient<\/p>\n
1. Family life<\/p>\n
68%<\/p>\n
8.18<\/p>\n
2. Spiritual life<\/p>\n
46%<\/p>\n
8.25<\/p>\n
3. Health<\/p>\n
44%<\/p>\n
7.68<\/p>\n
4. Financial situation<\/p>\n
25%<\/p>\n
5.98<\/p>\n
5. Their jobs<\/p>\n
23%<\/p>\n
6.82<\/p>\n
6. Romantic life<\/p>\n
18%<\/p>\n
7.71<\/p>\n
7. Leisure Time<\/p>\n
14%<\/p>\n
6.14<\/p>\n
8. Their homes<\/p>\n
11%<\/p>\n
8.12<\/p>\n
U.S.News & World Report, (12\/11\/95), quoted in Preaching Resoureces, Spring, 1996.<\/p>\n
Are Most People Happy?<\/b><\/p>\n
Are most people happy? Dennis Wholey, author of Are You Happy? reports that according to expert opinion, perhaps only 20 percent of Americans are happy.<\/p>\n
Those experts would probably agree with the wry definition of happiness offered by psychiatrist Thomas Szasz, who said, \u201cHappiness is an imaginary condition, formerly attributed by the living to the dead, now usually attributed by adults to children and by children to adults.\u201d<\/p>\n
Our Daily Bread, October 11, 1994<\/p>\n
Joe Theismann<\/b><\/p>\n
Quarterback cum ESPN commentator Joe Theismann, allegedly explaining to his soon-to-be-ex-second wife why he had an affair: \u201cGod wants Joe Theismann to be happy.\u201d<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Smiles Count<\/b><\/p>\n
Holiday Inn, when looking for 500 people to fill positions for a new facility, interviewed 5,000 candidates. The hotel managers interviewing these people excluded all candidates who smiled fewer than four times during the interview. This applied to people competing for jobs in all categories. <\/p>\n
Bits & Pieces, March 3, 1994, p. 11<\/p>\n
Golden Rule<\/b><\/p>\n
A fascinating study on the principle of the Golden Rule was conducted by Bernard Rimland, director of the Institute for Child Behavior Research. Rimland found that \u201cThe happiest people are those who help others.\u201d Each person involved in the study was asked to list ten people he knew best and to label them as happy or not happy. Then they were to go through the list again and label each one as selfish or unselfish, using the following definition of selfishness: a stable tendency to devote one\u2019s time and resources to one\u2019s own interests and welfare\u2014an unwillingness to inconvenience one\u2019s self for others.\u201d (Rimland, \u2018The Altruism Paradox,\u2019 Psychological Reports 51 [1982]: 521) In categorizing the results, Rimland found that all of the people labeled happy were also labeled unselfish. He wrote that those \u201cwhose activities are devoted to bringing themselves happiness…are far less likely to be happy than those whose efforts are devoted to making others happy\u201d Rimland concluded: \u201cDo unto others as you would have them do unto you.\u201d (Ibid., p. 522). <\/p>\n
Martin & Diedre Bobgan, How To Counsel From Scripture, Moody Press, 1985, p. 123<\/p>\n
What Makes People Satisfied?<\/b><\/p>\n
What really makes people satisfied with their lives? Amazingly, the secret may lie in a person\u2019s ability to handlelife\u2019s blows without blame or bitterness. These are the conclusions of a study of 173 men who have been followed since they graduated from Harvard University in the early 1940s. The study, reported in the American Journal of Psychiatry, noted that one potent predictor of well-being was the ability to handle emotional crisis maturely. <\/p>\n
Today in the Word, November 2, 1993<\/p>\n
Elvis Presley<\/b><\/p>\n
Six weeks before he died, a reporter asked Elvis Presley, \u201cElvis, when you first started playing music, you said you wanted to be rich, famous and happy. Are you happy?\u201d \u201cI\u2019m lonely as hell,\u201d he replied.<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Happiness Is\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n
A woman I know climbed on the bathroom scale after two weeks of butterless toast and chilly jogs around the park. The needle was still stuck on the number where she\u2019d started. This struck her as typical of how things had been going lately. She was destined never to be happy.<\/p>\n
As she dressed, scowling at her tight jeans, she found $20 in her pocket. Then her sister called with a funny story. When she hurried out to the car\u2014angry that she had to get gas\u2014she discovered her roommate had already filled the tank for her. And this was a woman who thought she\u2019d never be happy.<\/p>\n
Every day, it seems, we\u2019re flooded with pop-psych advice about happiness. The relentless message is that there\u2019s something we\u2019re supposed to do to be happy\u2014make the right choices, or have the right set of beliefs about ourselves. Our Founding Fathers even wrote the pursuit of happiness into the Declaration of Independence.<\/p>\n
Coupled with this is the notion that happiness is a permanent condition. If we\u2019re not joyful all the time, we conclude there\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\n
Yet what most people experience is not a permanent state of happiness. It is something more ordinary, a mixture of what essayist Hugh Prather once called \u201cunsolved problems, ambiguous victories and vague defeats\u2014with few moments of clear peace.\u201d<\/p>\n
Maybe you wouldn\u2019t say yesterday was a happy day, because you had a misunderstanding with your boss. But weren\u2019t there moments of happiness, moments of clear peace? Now that you think about it, wasn\u2019t there a letter from an old friend, or a stranger who asked where you got such a great haircut? You remember having a bad day, yet those good moments occurred.<\/p>\n
Happiness is like a visitor, a genial, exotic Aunt Tilly who turns up when you least expect her, orders an extravagant round of drinks and then disappears, trailing a lingering scent of gardenias. You can\u2019t command her appearance; you can only appreciate her when she does show up. And you can\u2019t force happiness to happen\u2014but you can make sure you are aware of it when it does.<\/p>\n
While you\u2019re walking home with a head full of problems, try to notice the sun set the windows of the city on fire. Listen to the shouts of kids playing basketball in the fading light, and feel your spirits rise, just from having paid attention.<\/p>\n
Happiness is an attitude, not a condition. It\u2019s cleaning the Venetian blinds while listening to an aria, or spending a pleasant hour organizing your closet. Happiness is your family assembled at dinner. It\u2019s in the present, not in the distant promise of a \u201csomeday when…\u201d How much luckier we are\u2014and how much more happiness we experience\u2014if we can fall in love with the life we\u2019re living.<\/p>\n
Happiness is a choice. Reach out for it at the moment it appears, like a balloon drifting seaward in a bright blue sky.<\/p>\n
Condensed from Glamour, Adair Lara, Reader\u2019s Digest<\/p>\n
Marla Maples<\/b><\/p>\n
At the height of her fame as the other woman in the Ivana and Donald Trump breakup, Marla Maples spoke of her religious roots. She believed in the Bible, she told interviewers, then added the disclaimer, \u201cbut you can\u2019t always take [it] literally and be happy.\u201d <\/p>\n
C. Colson, The Body, p. 124<\/p>\n
Where Is Happiness?<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 Happiness is not found in pleasure, Clarence Macartney said. Lord Byron lived such a life if anyone did. He wrote, \u201cThe worm, the canker, and the grief are mine alone.\u201d <\/p>\n
\u2022 Happiness is not found in money\u2014Jay Gould, the American millionaire, had plenty of that. When dying, he said, \u201cI suppose I am the most miserable man on earth.\u201d <\/p>\n
\u2022 Happiness is not found in position and fame\u2014Lord Beaconsfield enjoyed more than his share of both. He wrote, \u201cYouth is a mistake, manhood a struggle, and old age a regret.\u201d <\/p>\n
\u2022 Happiness is not found in military glory\u2014Alexander the Great conquered the known world in his day. Having done so, he wept in his tent because, he said, \u201cThere are no more worlds to conquer.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Genuine Happiness?<\/b><\/p>\n
I have now reigned above 50 years in victory or peace, beloved by my subjects, dreaded by my enemies, and respected by my allies. Riches and honors, power and pleasure, have waited on my call, nor does any earthly blessing appear to have been wanting to my felicity. In this situation I have diligently numbered the days of pure and genuine happiness which have fallen to my lot: they amount to 14! O man, place not thy confidence in this present world! <\/p>\n
Abdalrahman, in The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire<\/p>\n
Quotes<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 Ever notice that when your cup of happiness is full, somebody always jogs your elbow? <\/p>\n
\u2022 Happiness is not the end of life; character is. – H. W. Beecher<\/p>\n
\u2022 There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy. – Robert Louis Stevenson<\/p>\n
\u2022 Happiness in this world, when it comes, comes incidentally. Make it the object of pursuit, and it leads us a wild-goose chase, and is never attained. Follow some other object and very possibly we may find that we have caught happiness without dreaming of it. – Nathaniel Hawthorne<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Joy Robbers<\/b><\/p>\n
An old man was asked what had robbed him of joy the most in his lifetime. He replied, \u201cThings that never happened!\u201d <\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Three Keys to <\/p>\n
Someone has cited these three keys to happiness: <\/p>\n
1. Fret not\u2014He loves you (John 13:1)<\/p>\n
2. Faint not\u2014He holds you (Psalm 139:10)<\/p>\n
3. Fear not\u2014He keeps you (Psalm 121:5)<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
Ten Rules for Happier Living<\/b><\/p>\n
1. Give something away (no strings attached)<\/p>\n
2. Do a kindness (and forget it)<\/p>\n
3. Spend a few minutes with the aged (their experience is a priceless guidance)<\/p>\n
4. Look intently into the face of a baby (and marvel)<\/p>\n
5. Laugh often (it\u2019s life\u2019s lubricant)<\/p>\n
6. Give thanks (a thousand times a day is not enough)<\/p>\n
7. Pray (or you will lose the way)<\/p>\n
8. Work (with vim and vigor)<\/p>\n
9. Plan as though you\u2019ll live forever (because you will)<\/p>\n
10. Live as though you\u2019ll die tomorrow (because you will on some tomorrow)<\/p>\n
Source unknown<\/p>\n
God Is What He Is<\/b><\/p>\n
To ask that God\u2019s love should be content with us as we are is to ask that God should cease to be God: because He is what He is, His love must, in the nature of things, be impeded and repelled by certain stains in our present character, and because He already loves us He must labour to make us lovable. We cannot even wish, in our better moments, that He could reconcile Himself to our present impurities\u2014no more than the beggar maid could wish that King Cophetua should be content with her rags and dirt, or a dog, once having learned to love man, could wish that man were such as to tolerate in his house the snapping, verminous, polluting creature of the wild pack. What we would here and now call our \u201chappiness\u201d is not the end God chiefly has in view: but when we are such as He can love without impediment, we shall in fact be happy. – C. S. Lewis<\/p>\n
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