Exegetical and Hermeneutical Commentary of Romans 15:2

Let every one of us please [his] neighbor for [his] good to edification.

2. for his good to edification ] These words taken together perfectly define the principle of Christian complaisance. Cp. 1Co 10:33, and contrast Gal 1:10, where St Paul treats the case of radically false doctrine, not, as here, a question of secondary practice. “ Edification: ” see on Rom 14:19. The Christian’s aim in “pleasing his neighbour” was to be the harmony, advance, and strength, of the “blessed company of the faithful” as a united aggregate.

Fuente: The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges

Please his neighbour – That is, all other persons, but especially the friends of the Redeemer. The word neighbor here has special reference to the members of the church. It is often used, however, in a much larger sense; see Luk 10:36.

For his good – Not seek to secure for him indulgence in those things which Would be injurious to him, but in all those things whereby his welfare would be promoted.

To edification – See the note at Rom 14:19.

Fuente: Albert Barnes’ Notes on the Bible

Rom 15:2-3

Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.

The character of Christian courtesy

The great aim of the gospel is to raise our views and desires above this life, and furnish us with pure and powerful principles in the direction of our words and actions, far above the will of fallen man. But while it invites us to lay up our treasure in heaven, it instructs us in everything that may best contribute to bless the life of man on earth.

I. The duty here enjoined.

1. You are not to make the pleasing of men the reason or rule of your conduct in any case, for the sake of their praise, or of any reward from them. That would, indeed, be to please them rather than God, and instead of God. But you are to study, if possible, to please your neighbour as a duty which God requires, and which you must continue to do whether men praise you for it or not.

2. This pleasing our neighbour is not, in any respect, to be placed in opposition to the pleasing of God, or to be followed in anything that would be displeasing in His sight. We are not allowed to put their good, or their good-will, in place of the glory of God, but only in place of our own gratification; not to please ourselves, but every one to please his neighbour.

3. We are called to sacrifice our own pleasure to his, whenever our doing so would tend to his good, or to the edification of others; but, when it would not be for good, we must refuse to please any of our fellow-creatures, however much it might expose us to their dislike.

4. Keeping these points in view, you will be better able to guard against two very opposite errors on this subject, which require to be considered.

(1) There is a pleasing of others which many study merely as an art, and to which young persons are trained by certain forms, as a branch of their education. This is only a seeming preference of others, which is far from real humility. This is a preference of others also only in trifles, while they would refuse to do much for the real good of those whom they seem so desirous to please. It is in itself, in short, as far as it is the invention of men, a mere tissue of hypocrisy, which the children of this world cast around them, rather for the purpose of hiding their selfish and malignant feelings than of expressing their benevolent dispositions.

(2) There is a disposition in some persons, on the other hand, not only to neglect the pleasing of others as an art, but also to despise it as a duty. They think it sufficient that they give no just cause of offence to any one; but take little care to guard against the appearance of disregarding them. They will do much for mens real welfare, but will show no indulgence to their weaknesses. The clearer your knowledge, the sounder your judgment, the stronger your faith, the more may be expected from you, in bearing the infirmities, and even the censures of others, in denying yourselves in many things for their sake, and in doing whatever you lawfully may to please them for their good.

II. The reason assigned for this duty. Even Christ pleased not Himself.

1. Observe the force of the expression, even Christ. The act of submission was lower, the degree of the sacrifice was greater in His case, than it ever possibly can be in ours; how shall we refuse to serve those with whom we must rank in His sight as fellow-creatures?

2. But let us contemplate more particularly the character of our Lord in the respect here specified by the apostle, namely, that He pleased not Himself. In one sense, indeed, it may be said that He always pleased Himself, inasmuch as He never had one wish or feeling that was contrary to what He knew to be right, and conducive to the good of others. But let us consider with how much reason He might have insisted that others should please and honour Him in every iota, instead of His yielding any point to satisfy their prejudices or serve their infirmities. (J. Brewster.)

Pleasing oar neighbour for good

The gospel does not come down in its requirements to the level of our imperfections. Its plan of perfection is no treadmill. It is ever ahead of us.

I. Who is my neighbour?

1. He that dwells, near me.

2. He that is my countryman.

3. He that is my fellow-man.

4. He that is a follower of Christ.

II. The social duty here commended and commanded.

1. Sympathy.

2. Tenderness.

3. Esteem.

4. To be more ready to speak good of him than evil.

III. The object to be held in view.

1. To please him for his good.

2. To please him for his edification, that his character may be built up in truth and righteousness.

IV. Some reasons for this.

1. The example of Christ. He pleased not Himself, but gave Himself for us all.

2. The imitation of Christ. Be ye followers of Me.

V. Reflections.

1. In this Epistle we have eleven chapters devoted to the exposition of doctrines, and five to some chief social duties.

2. Were we to realise these social duties, earth would become a place more like heaven, and make it sweeter and easier for us all to live. (L. O. Thompson.)

On pleasing men

Some men seek to build up their fellow-men remotely, e.g., by education, political economy, the application of natural laws. But, except as the administrators of such forces, they have no personal relation to the work. They have no sympathy for individuals. Their pleasure is left out of the question. Then there are others who seek to do good, but without any idea of the relation of this good to the character to be formed in men. There are persons that relieve suffering without asking how the relief can build up the sufferer into permanent goodness. There are others who seek to give the most transient pleasure without any concern either for good or for edification. They please men without any consideration of whether the means which they employ are right or wrong.

2. Now, the apostle joins all three together. You are to please men; and you are to please them so that you shall do them good. But all this in such a way as to effect a permanent building of character. One man may go through a farm only to glean flowers and fruit, to find pleasure there, and to give pleasure transiently. Another may find pleasure, to be sure, and he may also here and them strive to do a little good. He may destroy some vermin, pluck up some weeds, and plant and rear a few flowers. A third may unite all these things with a comprehensive culture that shall deepen the soil, augment its crops, and develop its resources of beauty, pleasure, and profit at the same time. This is the right way, and we are to cultivate each other in the same way.

I. Men are benefited simply by being pleased. Of course men would not be profited by having only pleasure in this world. That is provided for, however. Men need trouble, and they will have it. But men need pleasing as well. And the art of pleasing is an important element in moral culture. For when men are in a state of pleasedness they are more inclined to good influences than when they are not pleased. Dr. Kane said that there was no nautical skill that was so important, while wintering in the North, as one man among the crew that could play the fiddle. Why? Because it is indispensable, under such circumstances, that the men should be kept in a cheerful state of mind. And this same element of cheerfulness is necessary in all the various situations in life. It may be better to strike at deeper results; but it is not best to despise those which be near the surface. It may be that a miner, by sinking a shaft, will find more gold in the veins; but it is not best for him to despise the specks of gold that are thrown up with the soil in the process.

II. The habit of pleasing men is quite as indispensable for our own sake as for theirs. It keeps the mind and heart on the side of benevolence. It gradually frames your character into the Divine. And a man may be earnest and conscientious; and yet, if he carries himself in such a way that the pleasing of others is no part of his daily conduct, he cannot be thought to be a perfect man.

III. The human mind has been endowed with faculties whose very end seems to be the ministration of pleasure. People seem to think that God must be a great utilitarian, and that He always makes things for uses. But wherever you see that God has walked in the world, you see that He has had an eye to beauty. There is something on the globe besides what men can eat, drink, and wear. God made the earth beautiful that the higher feelings might be fed. We are organised for something more than the mere practical duties of life.

1. The human mind is made to act with cheerfulness. You know the difference between a rusty and a polished piece of iron. The rusty piece reflects nothing. Polish it, and how every one delights to look at it! Now, the difference between polished and rusty iron is the difference between cheerfulness and no cheerfulness. A cheerful doctor gives his medicine the moment he steps inside the room. Those sepulchral doctors–I wonder that anybody gets well under their care. A clergyman whose face glows with health, hope, and cheer has looked consolation into his friend before he has spoken a word. But a minister, whose face says, Hark! from the tomb a doleful sound, I marvel how he should be twice sent for, unless it might be on the ground of the benefits of affliction! And in all relations of life the same is true.

2. The tendency to please is still more powerful where cheerfulness is joined to good-nature. I sometimes preach better under the influence of the flowers that stand on the desk before me. They do not know that they are helping me, whether I do or not. There are persons that are pleasant when they come into your presence, that are pleasant while they stay, and their memory is sweet when they are gone. There are other persons whom you know to be good, and who you feel assured want to do you good, but whose presence is painful to you.

3. When God put wit and humour into the human soul, He put them there to be to the soul what the hearth is to the family, whose burning wood snaps and sends up sparks, and throws light into all parts of the room, and chases darkness, and imparts pleasure to all within the reach of its influence. But such is the heathenism of public opinion, that where a man uses his conscience to urge truth, and his reason to enforce it, people think that is all right; but that where a man uses mirthfulness to illustrate it and make it acceptable, people think it is not right.

4. The same is true of imagination. You cannot conceive that the imagination should be given a man except for pleasure. The imagination is what vines and mosses are that cover hard places, and beautify things that are not lovely in their own nature.

IV. We now see the mistake of making moral qualities unpleasing, as though it was a necessity that they should be so. Men seeing that cheerfulness, fancy, etc., are concomitants of unlawful pleasure, suppose them to be wicked, and steer away from them because they see bad men employ them. But because Cleopatra wore roses, must a virtuous woman not wear one? Because orgies are carried on with music, is music defiled? Things are not defiled because they are used for bad purposes. There is an impression that moral attributes have a certain hard and rugged nature of their own, and that they are genuine in proportion as they are unlovely. Many persons want a man to speak the truth very much as a bull-dog speaks. But throughout the New Testament moral qualities are enjoined to be exercised graciously and attractively. Let your light so shine, etc. Hence bluntness, coarseness, are not to be preferred. A disagreeable piety is impious by so much as it is disagreeable. Virtue is lovely, and you are not to slander it by acting as though to be pious was necessarily to be void of everything that is pleasure-giving.

V. This view will present a much higher idea of good manners than is often presented. We are usually taught good manners, because they are important to our making our way in the world; but good manners stand on a Christian ground. A man is bound so to conduct himself in all the thousand usages of society, as that his presence shall be a pleasant and not a disagreeable thing, or a burden to his fellow-men. There are persons in society who diffuse an element of comfort and joy wherever they go. We say of some persons, They are well-bred.

VI. This view will give a moral sanction to all those minor usages of society which tend to make men more pleasant. Many persons say, What is the use of salutations? Why should I raise my hat to a lady, or say Good morning when we meet, or Goodbye when we part? Well, for my part, I think that even good folks, without such little ceremonies, are like grapes packed for market without leaves between them. They will crush, and come in mashed. Even good folks need to have little courtesies Between them to keep them from attrition. And to take society and divest it of all these little civilities, would be to deteriorate it and carry it toward the savage state. And if you think that these things are of no use, it is because you never put your heart into them. When you want to manage men, do as beekeepers do. Here are two. One goes to the hive, thrusts his hand rudely into the midst of them, and very soon he has his bees all over him, and he moves himself very rapidly! Another man gets a bowl of sugar and water and washes his hands all over, and goes with the utmost quietness and serenity, and opens the hive and puts his hand in gently, and the bees find everything sweet, and they will not sting him or fly away. And people say, Wonderful! that man has a real magnetic power with bees. So he has, when he has sugar and water on his hands. Now, when you want to manage men, wash your hands with sugar and water! Conclusion: If you carry these thoughts home, I think you will find there a great sphere for the reformation of minor morals. In the family the law of pleasing ought to extend from the highest to the lowest. You are bound to please your children, and your children each other; and you are bound to please your servants, if you expect them to please you. Some men are pleasant in the household, and nowhere else. But the opposite is apt to be the case. We expend all our politeness in places where it will be profitable–where it will bring silver and gold. My friends, our kindness should begin at home. It should not stay there; but there it should begin, and there it should be nourished. (H. W. Beecher.)

On pleasing all men

1. Undoubtedly this duty is incumbent on all–every man; neighbour, too, means every other man. Only as Paul says elsewhere, If it be possible as much as lieth in you live peaceably with all men, so we are to please all men if possible. But strictly speaking it is not; but if we use our utmost diligence, let the event be what it may, we have done our duty.

2. The apostle limits this direction, otherwise it would be attended with mischievous consequences. We are to please them for their good; not barely for the sake of pleasing them or ourselves, much less to their hurt; nor for their temporal good merely, but for their edification, so as to conduce to their spiritual and eternal good. We may do this–

I. By removing hindrances. We must avoid everything which tends to displease wise and good men.

1. Now cruelty, hatred, malice, etc., are displeasing, and so is that temper so prevalent in common life–ill-nature. We must, then, avoid these, and whatever resembles them, as sourness, sternness, sullenness on the one hand; peevishness and fretfulness on the other.

2. Next to these nothing is more disgustful than pride and haughtiness issuing in an assuming, arrogant, overbearing behaviour. Even great learning and shining talents will not make amends for this.

3. Almost as disgustful is a passionate temper and behaviour. Hence passionate men have seldom many friends.

4. We must put away all lying. Addison said, Of all vices this has never found an apologist; but he wrote before Lord Chesterfield, whose apology for it is the best that could be made for so bad a cause. As lying can never be commendable, so neither can it be pleasing.

5. But is not flattery a species of lying, and has it not been regarded in all ages as a means of pleasing? Yes, flattery is pleasing for a while, but when the mask drops off we are pleased no longer. If a man continues to flatter after his insincerity is discovered it is disgusting.

6. Dissimulation is displeasing, and guile, subtlety, cunning, and the whole art of deceiving. Even those who practise it most are not pleased with it in others, nor fond of conversing with those who practise it on themselves.

II. By using the means that directly tend to this end. Only remember that there are those whom we cannot expect to please. It is now as when our Lord said, The men of this generation are like unto children sitting in the market-place, etc. But leaving these froward ones to themselves, we may hope to please others in the following way.

1. Let love not visit you as a transient guest, but be the constant temper of your soul. Let it pant in your heart, sparkle in your eyes, shine on all your actions, and speak with your tongue.

2. Study to be lowly in heart. Be clothed with humility. Reject the favourite maxim of the old heathen, The more you value yourself the more others will value you. Not So, Both God and man resist the proud.

3. Pray that you may be meek. Labour to be of a calm, dispassionate temper; gentle to all men, pitiful, generous.

4. Be courteous to all, high or low, good or bad. Addisons definition of politeness is a constant desire of pleasing all men, appearing through the whole conversation. I have seen as real courtesy in an Irish cabin as could be found in St. Jamess or the Louvre.

5. What is the root of that desire to please which we call courtesy? The same apostle that teaches it teaches us to honour all men, and the Master teaches us to love all men. Join all these together, and what will be the effect? When a poor wretch cries to me for an alms, I look and see him covered in rags. But through these I see an immortal spirit redeemed by Christs blood. The courtesy, therefore, which I feel and show toward him is a mixture of the honour and love which I bear to the offspring of God, the purchase of Christ, the candidate for immortality.

6. Take all proper opportunities of declaring to others the affection you really feel for them. This may be done in such a manner as is not liable to the imputation of flattery; and experience shows that honest men are pleased by this.

7. Speak to all men the very truth in your heart. In all company and on all occasions be a man of veracity. In simplicity and godly sincerity, etc.–an Israelite indeed.

8. To sum up all: if you would please men, please God. (John Wesley, M.A.)

Pleasing others

1. How far may we do this?

2. What should be our motive?

3. What are the best means of doing it? (J. Lyth, D.D.)

Pleasing others

There is such a thing as pleasing another by flattery, and encouraging him in his prejudices. Hence the restrictive phrase for his good. We are not to be men-pleasers (1Co 10:33; Gal 1:10), unworthy trimmers, and religious weathercocks. Nor are we to try to gain popularity by pandering to the weakness or follies of others. We are, however, to lay ourselves out to please our neighbour in the manner indicated. No one ever succeeds in an undertaking unless he make it a matter of business. We must be professionals, not amateurs, in the holy practice of advancing the spiritual interests of others. (C. Neil, M.A.)

The duty of pleasing others

is–

I. Founded in the law of christian love.

II. Limited by what tends to edification.

III. Fulfilled by–

1. Bearing with their infirmities.

2. Acknowledging their excellencies.

3. Seeking their good. (J. Lyth, D.D.)

Christ not pleasing Himself: Christian and social tolerance

I. The rule of forbearance as laid down by the apostle.

1. There were two classes in the Roman Church who refused liberty to others. There were the men of despotic conscience, and the men of despotic intellect; and, that we may cover the whole ground of character, we may add there are men of despotic will. To one or other of these classes belongs almost every case of undue interference with Christian and social liberty. In all these cases there may be much that is good, but there is a subtle form of self-gratification at the root of it, a mistaken self-assertion, which does not leave room for other natures to develop themselves in freedom.

2. It may be asked if, in no case, we are warranted to interfere with our fellow-men. Most certainly we cannot remain indifferent to what they do and are, if we have any regard for Gods truth and their welfare. But we should be very sure that it is regard to Gods truth and anothers welfare that actuates us, and not the mere wilfulness thai seeks its own way. We have to learn that, within the limits of what is not positively wrong, every one has the right to be himself. It is frequently very hard to allow this, especially when there are close relationships. Husband and wife, parents and children, brothers and sisters, find it most difficult of all to make allowance for each others variety of nature, and to remain side by side without undue interference with one anothers peculiarities.

3. It is here that the further principle of this passage comes in, that we are not merely to refrain from constraining others into our way, but, as far as we can, we are to meet them in theirs. If there be a separation of taste, instead of compelling them to surrender, we are to forbear, and if the thing be harmless for us, and it will gratify them, we are to take part in their pursuits. But is there no limit to this surrender? Yes. We are to please our neighbour for his good to edification. This is the end, and the end prescribes the limit. Such a principle saves Christian compliance from sycophancy or characterlessness. But within two limits–the indulgence of our fellow-men in sin, and the compromise of our own true nature–there is ample scope for the exercise of endless charity and compliance. The tree that has its firm-fixed root and upright stem has also its spreading branches and thousand waving twigs, which yield to the breeze and salute the gentlest movement of the surrounding air. How beautiful strength is, when it thus melts away at its extremities into kindliness and courtesy!

II. This forbearance is illustrated by Christs example (verse 3).

1. The quotation is from Psa 69:1-36, in which the speaker is David; but the apostle takes the words as completed in Christ, which this manner of dealing with the Psalms gives us a light to read the Psalms in. Wherever a man is uttering a breathing of the Divine life, it is not merely Christ that he is implicitly looking forward to, but it is Christ that is breathing and speaking in him.

2. To prove the disinterested forbearance of Christ, he cites a passage that shows his self-devotion to God. Right action toward man flows naturally from right feeling toward God. If self-pleasing has been sacrificed on the Divine altar, it has received its death-blow in every other form. We have to show that this was a characteristic of Christ in His intercourse with men–forbearance and freedom. He presented the Divine will, and pressed it on men as the rule of all life, but He refrained carefully from crushing their nature in its flee development.

(1) We see this in the variety of character which His earthly life drew around it. His disciples represent the extremes of temperament. He is careful never to stamp on them a hard uniformity, but leaves them to their own natural development, and aids them in it. Then, outside this circle, we have groups of all possible colours. How different from founders of human systems, who cannot be satisfied unless their formulas are repeated, and their minutest features reflected, by all their scholars.

(2) Christ not merely refrained from interfering with free growth Himself, but He interposed to defend others when they were interfered with. What a lesson there is to contending, narrow-minded religionists, in Luk 9:49! What an admonition to those who would impose their own way of work upon every other, when Marthas complaint is so gently but firmly met! (Joh 12:7).

(3) Turn now from His earthly life to the work He carries on by His Spirit, which is to enter into each nature by itself, and unfold it from its own germ and centre. It is for wise reasons that a visible Head is removed from the Christian Church. We can perceive how the disciples started up into stronger, broader men, under this new influence, and how their characters struck out on all sides into more marked individuality. How different are the apostles and the epistles of the same apostle, caused by the variety of development in the churches to which they were addressed! And Christ is still teaching us to look with an approving eye on every honest effort to do good and to take pleasure in the wide variety of human character and Christian grace.

III. Some of the advantages that would result from acting on this principle.

1. If, in Christian or social intercourse, we wish to deliver any man from what we think error, we must do so by putting him in the way of convincing himself. To beat him down by unreasoning opposition, or even by an irresistible argument, may please us, but is not likely to gain him. To respect a mans freedom, never to press him so hard as to humiliate him, to give him the clue that may help him to guide himself to the right, is according to the Divine model, and would aid us in serving at the same time both our fellow-men and the truth.

2. Take the family circle. Authority must exist, but when authority makes itself felt at every turn, freedom is gone, and influence vanishes with it. Constitutional government here, as elsewhere, is the great thing to be aimed at–that is, firm law on certain great essentials, but freedom within this to grow up according to taste and temperament. If we wish those we are influencing to become valuable for anything, it must be by permitting them to be themselves. They will do very little if they turn out dead transcripts of us.

3. In pursuing such a course we shall best succeed in elevating and broadening our own nature. If we could bring all around us into our own mould, we should only have narrowed ourselves in the process of constraining others. But, if we enter into sympathy with their pursuits, we not merely grow in unselfishness, but add something to our intellectual nature which was not there before. Conclusion: In all this work there are needed two great qualities, love and wisdom. Neither will suffice alone. Love in its earnestness is often too narrow, and wisdom in its breadth may be too cold. They are the light and heat of the moral world which must go together. (J. Ker, D.D.)

Making others happy

1. A mans soul is like a garden belonging to an old neglected mansion. It is full of excellent things running to waste. Now a garden has no right to be dilapidated. It is made on purpose to confer pleasure and profit. So the soul of man is full of good dispositions and kind impulses; but besides these it is full of the stinging nettles of pride, and vanities flaunting coarse colours. A souls power to produce pleasure or pain in another is very great. We are commanded, therefore, to produce pleasure. It is not left optional with us whether men shall be made happier by our going among them. And not occasionally by a gleam and a smile. It is to enter into the whole carriage of our lives.

2. This is neither a small nor an unimportant business. The making others happy is one of the best manifestations of the Christian disposition, and the closest imitation of Christs example. Our duty as Christians is not simply to go out after men outside of morality. All about us society is full of men whose lives average but very little sweetness. And it is for us to seek to make them happier. Some men move through life as a band of music, flinging out pleasure to every one, far and near. Some men fill the air with their sweetness as orchards, in October clays, fill the air with the perfume of ripe fruit. Some women cling to their own houses like the honeysuckle over the door, yet, like it, fill all the region with the subtle fragrance of their goodness. How great a bounty and a blessing is it so to hold the royal gifts of the soul that they shall be music to some, and fragrance to others, and life to all! It would be no unworthy thing to live for to fill the atmosphere with a brightness which others cannot create for themselves.

3. Men neglect frequently these very simple and very obvious truths, because there is still a remnant of asceticism among good men. Oh, say they, make men better, and then their happiness will take care of itself. But much of mens selfishness and sin springs from their own unhappiness. And whatever shall take that away will tend to make them better. Again, men say, My business is to be honest, and just, and not to make people laugh. Yet you have no business to be just and honest in such a way that those who stand next to you shall be less happy by your way of being so. No one has a better right to be a hedgehog than a hedgehog; but is he a good neighbour? A thistle belongs to the ordained economy of nature; and yet is it the model of a man? How many men there are who, rude of speech, go thrusting here, and piercing there, and treading down sensitiveness on every side, with no other excuse except this: Well, 1 believe in a straight, out-and-out kind of man. Jack Blunt is my model! Undoubtedly, and a very bad model very well imitated, too!

4. We are not at liberty to please by pandering to the bad elements in mens characters. We must move upon the right feelings in men, and not stir up the wrong ones, nor the evil ones. In order to this there must be a discipline in ourselves. In the free intercourse of human life you carry to men the faculties that are active in you, and tend to excite in them precisely the same feelings. If you are irritable, you tend to produce irritation. If you are proud, you tend to excite the resistance of pride. And these feelings never, in you nor in any other person, ministered to cheer. They are sand in the teeth. No man can be happy himself, or promote happiness in other men, until he has learned to put to sleep these malign faculties every day. The whole machinery of life, then, needs a great deal of oiling in you in order that you may minister to the wants of others.

5. We are not simply to carry happiness to those that are around about us. In the olden time it was thought that we should love our friends and hate our enemies. In the modern time it has been thought that we should love our own denomination, and hate those that are heretical. Therefore there has been felt to be a solemn duty incumbent on the Catholic to hate Protestants, and there has been felt to be a corresponding duty on the other side. Now, it is my business as a Protestant Christian man so to treat all Catholics that I shall please them, for their good, to edification. For a thousand years the experiment has been tried of bombarding men into love and faith; and with what luck? Is it not time to see if we cannot please men into unity; if we cannot drop the things that are disagreeable, and insist upon the things that are pleasing, for good, to edification? As it is in religious matters, so should it be in civil. There are times when men must stand in politics for principles, and at such times men cannot avoid giving pain. But this furnishes no criterion for the average of cases. Ordinarily, men who come together knowing that they are on different sides in philosophy, or in politics, or in business, if they be Christian men, should bear in mind that they are to please one another for good to edification, and not irritate and chafe and hurt each other.

6. If these views are correct, then there is a new element of personal piety that should enter into the conception of every one. We ask men whether they are willing to leave off every known sin, etc., but how seldom do we question men as to beneficence of disposition! When, then, we are bringing men into the kingdom of God we should inspire them with heroic enterprise in doing good; but there are thousands of men who are attempting to do good, who never had it enter their minds that they were to make happiness. If I were to carry home this subject to the household, are there not many families that would bear some reformation? On the other hand, how many households are there that call themselves Christians, and have a right to, because all daylong each one is shining on the others; because each one is removing obstructions, taking away attritions, smoothing asperities, and seeking to make all amiable and all happy? When, after the long, loathsome voyage, I entered the channel, and saw, dim upon the horizon, the blue line of shore, and smelled the strange odour in the air, I said to the captain, What is this smell? Bless your heart! said he, it is the land-smell. All the smells of the sea put together were never so sweet as that. There are persons so lovely that you cannot go near to them without perceiving that they exhale gladness and cheer and happiness. Blessed are such! I believe in revivals; but I have never known any revivals that did not need to have ether revivals in them. I have known men revived from intemperance and from wickedness, who went into churches and into neighbourhoods where they set themselves up on their orthodoxy and their propriety, and carried themselves so unsocially, so offensively, that they exerted no happiness-producing power. No person has drunk in the spirit of the Lord Jesus Christ who does not make other persons happier when he comes to them. (H. W. Beecher.)

Making sunshine in shady places

1. Life is a big bundle of littles, intended to be tied together by love. Lifes joy depends on what cords bind you and what hand ties them. Bound together we must be, either by cords of silk or by iron fetters. How much our happiness is placed in the power of others! The thoughts, looks, words, and actions of others can in a moment fill us with joy or sorrow. The sensorium of our life seems sometimes like a great and beautiful spiders web, in which every thread is sensitive, we at the centre giving out and receiving back again a thousand pulsations of joy and sorrow. To change the figure, our hearts are a telephonic centre, from which we send out varied messages, and get them back, too. Messages of tenderness and of scorn, of healing and mischief. Who of us can live to ourselves?

2. How much we each have it in our power to make others happy! Surely here is a realm of Christian duty little regarded by us, and I fear less practised. How many persons in this age of keen competition, when life is a race, have pondered Christs words about loving their neighbour as themselves? Even in family and social life how many need to ponder the sin of being constant misery-makers! If one person kills another in passion, we call that murder. But if a hard, selfish nature frets another and a loving nature to death, what do we call that? We find in our text–

I. A centre. No man can please his neighbour who does not please himself. We cannot give what we have not got. Without a fixed centre there can be no circle. Now, if a Christian man is to please himself, he needs that three features shall be prominent in his experience.

1. Let him make up his mind as to what is lifes true idea, and lovingly pursue it. Much of our joy in life depends on what we expect. If I expect a large gift and get a little one, or nothing, I am vexed and disappointed; but if I expect little and get much, then I am easily pleased. If I have made up my mind that the world is a workshop to make men; that God and men are the workers, circumstances the tools; each day an opportunity for new effort and new knowledge; failure only a revelation of the ideal and another chance for progress; if I have settled that love is lifes one great end and prize, then, with a noble discontent, which rests ever and yet never, I may be happy in myself.

2. But this happiness will only be secure as my motive is right and my helper is ever near. To live to push myself to the front, or even to please men, will never give full pleasure to the heart. He who commands and inspires me must himself be perfect, or his imperfection will in turn become mine. Christ must be the keynote of lifes song and the singers inspiration. To please Him is to lead self to its highest ideal and aspiration and joy. Would we please self, our motto must be, For me to live is Christ. Self lost in Christ is lifes full gain.

3. Yet one thing more is needed. Every day and hour brings me a heap of failures. What am I to do with these? Carry them hourly to Christ for His loving forgiveness, which deepens penitence, heartens trust, and inspires to new and nobler service.

II. The circumference of our text is–that no man can truly please himself unless he seeks to please his neighbour.

1. Selfish joy is a paradox. A great thinker has said, No man has a right to all his rights; the measure in which he determines to have them is the measure of his meanness–the measure of his willinghood to forego them is the measure of his manhood and nobleness. Where to-day men are too selfish to labour for the common weal, politics become degraded, the national conscience debased, and the poor trampled upon.

2. But what language can fully describe the holy gladness of being permitted to help and bless ones fellow-men? What a royal gift it is to carry sunshine about with you; to be like the flowers, making people happy without knowing it; to light your neighbours candle by your own, thus losing nothing and giving much. If we could doom each man to live and labour merely for himself, then, whatever has lent any virtue to work, whatever has prompted courage and self-sacrifice, the very beauty of home life itself, must perish. I am told if you play a flute beneath a great church bell, too large for you to stir, and listen close till the right note flows forth a silver rivulet of melody, that mass of metal will respond with a myriad waves of sound in low, soft unison. So, if a man will live like Christ lived–not to please himself–then not only will he most truly please himself, but a thousand hearts will vibrate to the melody of that mans self-sacrificing love.

III. The conclusion of our text is–that no man can either truly please his neighbour or himself who does not seek to please both for a worthy reason. We must seek to please for the permanent building up of character.

1. All can please if they only try. True, some have dispositions naturally winsome and agreeable, and others as naturally acid and disagreeable; but, not the less, every man has this command laid upon him.

2. Merely to give pleasure may, unless guarded, be a snare. We may seek to please only to find opportunity for display, or to secure mens applause. We may want the partnership of others in gaiety or dissipation, and we may please them only for the sake of keeping us company. These methods, and many others, pull men down and never build them up. Our work is to build men up for good and for God.

3. All our life would be lifted to a level of nobility if our pleasure were to seek to do men good in a glad spirit. It was a noble resolve of the blacksmith who said, whatever others do, I have resolved not to undersell but excel my neighbours. Yet all secondary efforts to either please or bless men, however laudable they may be–and they are–yet concerts, entertainments, lectures, all of them will bring us much disappointment; but the one work which will give us largest pleasure and noblest fruit is to sing to men the old, old story of Jesus and His love.

4. Nothing is more important than that men who do seek to build up others for good should do it in a pleasing way. I have no patience with good people representing God or His service in any unlovely light. Scolding seldom builds men much higher; silence is best when we cannot praise. To tell men what God has done for them, and wants to do for and in them, and to show them how glad and restful His service makes us–this is the best service we can render the truth and our fellow-men. Conclusion: Love is the great river that flows through and sweetens human life. Let us each one take care what we put into that river of love. Some carelessly throw in the broken potsherds of strife and ill-will. Some poison the stream with the miserable ambition of getting rich at any cost. Others foul the stream with grossnesses and impurity. Every man should feel that he is responsible for the fulness, and purity, and beauty of lifes river of love. (R. H. Lovell.)

Christian courtesy

1. The apostle makes a special application of this principle to the conduct of the strong towards the weak. Taken by itself, it is the injunction of the comprehensive duty of courtesy. The etymology and frequent usage of the word would confine it to what is outward, i.e., polished manners. Court, courtier, courtesy, are nearly allied. But the word has a higher meaning. To court is to endeavour to please; courtesy is the desire and effort to please arising from a good motive and directed to a right end. The sycophant desires to please, but not for edification. He acts from a selfish motive for a selfish object. Every Christian, so far as his Christianity moulds and controls his character, is courteous.

2. The sum of Christian wisdom is to be Christlike (verse 3). Nothing can exceed the courtesy of Christ and His condescension, kindness, and tenderness to the humble, poor, suffering, and penitent. Woman, hath no man condemned thee? etc. Many of the earlier Christians wished to expunge that paragraph. But no purer, brighter ray shines upon the life of our Lord than that which fell upon Him when He uttered these words.

I. Courtesy has a negative side. It is manifested by avoiding to give pain–

1. By impressing others with their inferiority, their position, knowledge, talents, force in argument, liberality. The strong among the Romans despised the narrowness and weakness of their scrupulous brethren.

2. By in any way hurting their feelings.

II. The positive of this virtue is the endeavour to please, to heal wounded feelings, to inspire confidence and affection. (C. Hodge, D.D.)

Edification

I. Its necessity. All need it.

1. Some have yet to be built. Children, e.g., have unformed characters which require to be formed.

2. Some are built awry. Many young men have characters malformed, and the task is to get them into form.

3. Some have tumbled down. There are those whose character is a wreck, and the work in their case is one of reformation.

II. Its means. The builder must conform to law. The great principles on which successful building depends must be pleased. Outrage the laws of gravitation, proportion, etc., and the builder will labour in vain.

1. For the want of pleasing them–

(1) Some are never built at all. With the best of intentions, abundant materials, and assiduous efforts, a builder may erect a heap instead of an edifice. How much advice, instruction, etc., are expended on a child, only to be thrown away because expended in a repulsive form 1

(2) Others are pulled down. When a man has gone wrong, instead of trying to put him straight in the proper way, his friends often take him to pieces.

(3) When character has been ruined, instead of collecting and re-building the ruins, how often is it that they are scattered beyond recovery! Harsh sensures, cutting sarcasms, so-called plain truths never yet succeeded in reforming a broken character.

2. In each case the one thing needful is to give pleasure. Put a child, a youth, a man in good humour, give him hope, persuade him that duty is delightful, and the work of construction or reconstruction is almost half accomplished.

The application is–

1. To parents.

2. To preachers.

3. To teachers. (J. W. Burn.)

Edification

In the process of building a material edifice four things are necessary. They are equally essential in the edification of character.

I. A stable foundation–Christ, the Rock of Ages.

II. Sound materials–faith, hope, love, zeal, etc.

III. The combination of utility and grace in the structure. The Christian is to be beautiful as well as useful.

IV. Perfection at the finish. The Christian is to be a perfect man in Christ Jesus. (J. W. Burn)

Edification and pleasure

When Handels oratorio of the Messiah had won the admiration of many of the great, Lord Kinnoul took occasion to pay him some compliments on the noble entertainment which he had lately given the town. My lord, said Handel, I should be sorry if I only entertained them; I wish to make them better. It is to be feared that many speechmakers at public meetings could not say as much; and yet how dare any of us waste the time of our fellow immortals in mere amusing talk! If we have nothing to speak to edification, how much better to hold our tongue! (C. H. Spurgeon.)

Seeking to edify

A fine example of a word fitly spoken is found in Dr. Bushnells biography. An intelligent but not religious young lady, after spending a social evening with the good doctors family, was escorted home by her courteous host. On their way the brilliant starlight led them to talk of astronomy. The doctor spoke of the law of harmony which held each little star in its appointed place, and then turning to the bright-minded girl, with a winning smile, he said, Sarah, I want to see you in your place. This was all he said that was personal, but the thought thrilled her young soul as if it had dropped upon her from the skies. Its effect was to win her to discipleship. A word spoken in season, how good it is!

Fuente: Biblical Illustrator Edited by Joseph S. Exell

Verse 2. Let every one of us please his neighbour] For it should be a maxim with each of us to do all in our power to please our brethren; and especially in those things in which their spiritual edification is concerned. Though we should not indulge men in mere whims and caprices, yet we should bear with their ignorance and their weakness, knowing that others had much to bear with from us before we came to our present advanced state of religious knowledge.

Fuente: Adam Clarke’s Commentary and Critical Notes on the Bible

Having said we must not please ourselves, he immediately subjoins, we must please others, viz. every one his neighbour: he means, that we should condescend and accommodate ourselves to others, and give them satisfaction in all things; at least so far as may tend to their good and edification. You had a like passage, Rom 14:19. The apostle exhorts the Corinthians to a practice some what like this, 1Co 10:24; and he leads them the way by is own example, 1Co 9:19; 1Co 10:33. There is a pleasing of men which is sinful, and there is a pleasing of men which is lawful; and that is, when it is limited, as in this text.

Fuente: English Annotations on the Holy Bible by Matthew Poole

2, 3. Let every one of uslayhimself out to

please his neighbournotindeed for his mere gratification, but

for his goodwith aview

to his edification.

Fuente: Jamieson, Fausset and Brown’s Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible

Let everyone of us please his neighbour,…. Every man, particularly his Christian friend and brother, whom he should seek to please in all things, and by all means lawful; he should carry it affably and courteously, should make himself agreeable to him; should condescend and accommodate himself to his weakness, and bear his infirmities, and deny himself rather than displease him. The Vulgate Latin version and some copies read, “let everyone of you”; but the other reading is preferable, and best agrees with the context, Ro 15:1.

For his good; or as the Syriac renders it, , “in good things”; for he is not to be pleased, gratified, and indulged, in any thing that is evil: we are not to please any man in anything that is contrary to the Gospel of Christ, for then we should not be faithful servants of his; nor in anything repugnant to the commands of God, and ordinances of Christ, who are to be obeyed and pleased, rather than men; nor in anything that is of an immoral nature, we are not to comply with, though it may be to the displeasure of the dearest relation and friend; but in everything that is naturally, civilly, morally, or evangelically good, we should study to please them; and in whatsoever may be for their good, temporal, spiritual, or eternal: and

to edification: of our neighbour, brother, and Christian friend, for the establishment of his peace, the increase of his spiritual light, and the building of him up in his most holy faith; and also of the whole community, or church, to which each belong, whose peace and edification should be consulted, and everything done, which may promote and secure it; and among which this is one, every man to please his neighbour, in things lawful and laudable.

Fuente: John Gill’s Exposition of the Entire Bible

For that which is good ( ). “For the good.” As in Rom 14:16; Rom 14:19. Not to please men just for popular favours, but for their benefit.

Fuente: Robertson’s Word Pictures in the New Testament

1) “Let every one of us please his neighbor,” (hekastos hemon to plesion apesketo) “Let each of us please the one near him,” the neighbor, Jew or Gentile, 1Co 10:32-33. To please ones neighbor is not to be in itself the end-purpose of Christian action of helpfulness, but to the end of pleasing God, in helping ones neighbor, under love’s restraint, Gal 1:10; Rom 13:8; Rom 13:10. The pleasing of ones neighbor is to be for the purpose of helping him spiritually.

2) “For his good to edification,” (eis to agathon pros oikodomen) “With reference to the vital or inner good, to build him up or edify him;- that the weaker or even infirm brother may be strengthened in the faith and built up in character. As Christ gave his life doing good to others, helping even the poor, infirm, and afflicted, so should every maturing stronger Christian; Php_2:4-5; 1Co 9:19; 1Co 9:21; 1Co 10:24; 1Co 10:33; Act 10:38; Gal 6:10.

Fuente: Garner-Howes Baptist Commentary

2. Let indeed (438) every one of us, etc. He teaches us here, that we are under obligations to others, and that it is therefore our duty to please and to serve them, and that there is no exception in which we ought not to accommodate ourselves to our brethren when we can do so, according to God’s word, to their edification.

There are here two things laid down, — that we are not to be content with our own judgment, nor acquiesce in our own desires, but ought to strive and labor at all times to please our brethren, — and then, that in endeavoring to accommodate ourselves to our brethren, we ought to have regard to God, so that our object may be their edification; for the greater part cannot be pleased except you indulge their humor; so that if you wish to be in favor with most men, their salvation must not be so much regarded, but their folly must be flattered; nor must you look to what is expedient, but to what they seek to their own ruin. You must not then strive to please those to whom nothing is pleasing but evil.

(438) The γὰρ in this verse is considered by [ Griesbach ] as wholly spurious; and [ Beza ] has left it out. — Ed.

Fuente: Calvin’s Complete Commentary

(2) For his good.The object of this tender dealing with others is to be their benefit and growth in spiritual perfection. It is grounded on the example of Christ Himself.

Fuente: Ellicott’s Commentary for English Readers (Old and New Testaments)

2. To edification That is, to building up both the individual and the Church. For this pleasing his neighbour must not be for a private, but for a public end; it must not terminate in merely the attainment of a personal popularity, but in the upbuilding of the common unity.

Fuente: Whedon’s Commentary on the Old and New Testaments

‘Let each one of us please his neighbour unto the good, resulting in edifying.’

And the aim behind this is the pleasing of our neighbour in order to achieve ‘the good’. That does not mean putting the pleasing of our neighbour before our pleasing God. Indeed, the point is that by achieving ‘the good’ we will be pleasing God, for the idea behind the good is of what God sees as good. The good includes the good result of sustaining the weaker brothers and sisters, but probably also includes the final good resulting on the widest scale from obeying what had become Christ’s commandment based on Lev 19:10, to ‘love your neighbour as yourself’. By loving one another we sustain one another.

The use of the term ‘neighbour’ rather than ‘brother’ clearly suggests that Paul wants them to see their attitude as in line with ‘loving their neighbour’ (in the New Testament the use of the word neighbour is almost always in that context). That in this context ‘the neighbour’ is a fellow-Christian is apparent from the fact that pleasing him will result in edifying, that is, in his being built up in the faith.

Fuente: Commentary Series on the Bible by Peter Pett

Rom 15:2 . After Elz. has , against decisive witnesses.

Rom 15:4 . Instead of the second , B C D E F G *, 67** 80, most VSS., and several Fathers have . Approved by Griesb., adopted by Lachm., Tisch., Fritzsche. Rightly; the compound is an intentional or mechanical repetition.

Not so strongly attested (though by A B C* L ) is the repeated before . in Griesb., Lachm., Tisch. 8, which, since the article again follows, became easily added.

Rom 15:7 . ] Elz.: , against A C D** E F G L , min., most VSS., and several Fathers. A correct gloss, indicating the reference of to the Jewish and Gentile Christians.

Rom 15:8 . ] approved by Griesb., adopted also by Lachm. and Tisch. But Elz. and Fritzsche have ; against which the evidence is decisive. Moreover, is the customary form with Paul for more precise explanation, and hence also slipped in here.

) Lachm: , according to B C* D* F G, Arm. Ath. But how readily one of the two syllables might be passed over, and then the familiar (comp. also Gal 4:4 ) would be produced!

Rom 15:11 . After Lachm. has , according to B D E F G, 1, and several VSS.; manifestly an addition in accordance with Rom 15:10 .

] Lachm. and Tisch.: , according to A B C D E , 39, Chrys. ms. Dam. Both readings are also found in the LXX., and may be borrowed thence. The circumstance that after the form , as more conformable, readily offered itself, speaks in favour of .

Rom 15:15 . ] is wanting indeed in A B C *, Copt. Aeth. Cyr. Chrys. Ruf. Aug. (omitted by Lachm. and Tisch. 8), and stands in 3, 108, after ; but why should it have been added? On the other hand, its omission was readily suggested, since it had just appeared for the first time in Rom 15:14 , and since it seemed simply to stand in the way of the connection of .; hence also that transposition in 3, 108.

Rom 15:17 . ] Rightly Lachm. and Tisch.: . The reference of the preponderantly attested article was not understood.

Rom 15:19 . ] So A C D E F G, min., and most VSS. and Fathers. Adopted also by Griesb., Lachm., and Scholz. But Elz. (so also Matth., Fritzsche, Tisch. 8), in accordance with and D** LP, most min., Syr. Chrys., and others, has . In B, Pel. Vigil, there is merely . So Tisch. 7. Since there is absolutely no reason why . or should have been omitted or altered, probably the simple is the original, which was only variously glossed by . and .

Rom 15:20 . ] Lachm.: , according to B D* F G P. To facilitate the construction.

Rom 15:22 . ] B D E F G: , so Lachm. An interpretation in accordance with Rom 1:13 .

Rom 15:23 . ] Tisch. 7 : , according to B C, 37, 59, 71, Dam. A modifying gloss, according to an expression peculiarly well known from the book of Acts.

Rom 15:24 . After Elz. and Tisch. 7 have , which is omitted by Griesb., Lachm., and Tisch 8. A contrast to Rom 15:22 , written at the side, and then introduced, but rejected by all uncials except L **, and by all VSS. except Syr. p.; attested, however, among the Fathers by Theodoret, Theophylact, and Oecumenius, and preserved in nearly all the cursives. This old interpolation occasioned the insertion of an illustrative after (so Elz., Tisch., and also Lachm.), the presence of which also in principal witnesses (as A B C ), in which . . . is wanting, does not point to the originality of these words, but only to a very early addition and diffusion of them, so that in fact those witnesses represent only a half-completed critical restoration of the original text, whilst those which omit both (as F G) still contain the original text or a complete purification of the text.

Instead of , Lachm. and Tisch. 7 have , according to D E F G, min., which presents itself as genuine, and is explained by on account of the passive. B has .

Rom 15:29 . ] Elz.: X., against decisive evidence. A gloss.

Rom 15:31 . ] Lachm: , according to B D* F G, which, however, Paul, considering the delicacy of designation here throughout observed, can hardly have written; it appears to be an explanation.

The repetition of before . (in Elz.) is, according to A B C D* F G *, 80, justly also omitted by Lachm. and Tisch.

Instead of Lachm. has , according to B D* F G, 213. Both prepositions are suitable to the sense; but the omission of the article in the majority of witnesses enables us to perceive how arose. This omission, namely, carried with it the alteration of into (66, Chrys. really have merely ), and then arose through an only partial critical restoration.

Rom 15:32 . ] A C *, Copt. Arm. Ruf.: with omission of the subsequent . Too weakly supported; an emendation of style, yet adopted by Tisch. 8.

Instead of , B has (so Lachm); D E F G, It.: ; *: . But the apostle never says . , but always . (comp. Rom 1:10 ; 1Co 1:1 ; 2Co 1:1 ; 2Co 8:5 , et al .), as throughout he uses constantly of God , when there is mention of His omnipotence or gracious will; where said of Christ, the is for him only the moral will (Eph 5:17 ). Hence those readings are to be regarded as unsuitable glosses after Rom 15:29-30 .

. ] has been omitted by Lachm. on the authority of B only, in which he is followed by Buttmann. From Rom 1:12 would have been employed as an addition, and not .; D E have (2Ti 1:16 ).

Rom 15:33 . The omission of the (bracketed by Lachm.) is too weakly attested.

Fuente: Heinrich August Wilhelm Meyer’s New Testament Commentary

Rom 15:2 . .] for his benefit . Comp. 1Co 10:33 ; 1Th 2:4 . A more special definition thereof is , in order to build up , to produce Christian perfection (in him). See on Rom 14:19 . According to Fritzsche, . is in respect of what is good , whereby immoral men-pleasing is excluded. But its exclusion is understood of itself, and is also implied in . On the interchange of and , comp. Rom 3:25-26 .

Fuente: Heinrich August Wilhelm Meyer’s New Testament Commentary

2 Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.

Ver. 2. Please his neighbour ] Though he cross himself: this is true Christian love, and driven almost out of the world by sinful self-love, which causeth men to dislike those things in others that they favour and flatter in themselves.

Fuente: John Trapp’s Complete Commentary (Old and New Testaments)

2. ] The qualification, . ., excludes all mere pleasing of men from the Christian’s motives of action. The Apostle repudiates it in his own case, Gal 1:10 . Bengel remarks, ‘ bonum , genus, dificatio , species:’ to a good end, and that good end his edification.

Fuente: Henry Alford’s Greek Testament

Rom 15:2 . : this rule is qualified by . Without such qualification it is “men-pleasing” (Gal 1:10 ) and inconsistent with fidelity to Christ. Cf. 1Co 10:33 , where Paul presents himself as an example of the conduct he here commends. For and in this verse cf. chap. Rom 3:25 f. According to Gifford marks the “aim” the advantage or benefit of our neighbour and the standard of reference; the only “good” for a Christian is to be “built up” in his Christian character.

Fuente: The Expositors Greek Testament by Robertson

every = each.

his = the.

for his good. Literally unto (App-104.) the good.

edification. The same Greek. word as Rom 14:19.

Fuente: Companion Bible Notes, Appendices and Graphics

2.] The qualification, . ., excludes all mere pleasing of men from the Christians motives of action. The Apostle repudiates it in his own case, Gal 1:10. Bengel remarks, bonum, genus, dificatio, species:-to a good end, and that good end his edification.

Fuente: The Greek Testament

Rom 15:2. , , for good, to edification) , unto, denotes the internal end, in respect of God; , to, the external end, in respect of our neighbour. Good, the genus; edification, the species.

Fuente: Gnomon of the New Testament

Rom 15:2

Rom 15:2

Let each one of us please his neighbor for that which is good, unto edifying.-The pleasing here is placed in contrast with grieving him. (Rom 14:15). That meant led into sin that would cause grief to him; so this refers more to doing what will help him, and so please him by edifying and instructing him in the truth of God. When he learns the truth and practices it, it will bring strength and joy to him. [This wish to please our neighbor is a praiseworthy feeling, but we are to indulge it according to these two rules: (1) In ways which are right in the sight of God, and (2) which tend to our neighbors edification-his building up in righteousness and Christian character. We should note that there is a wrong way of pleasing our neighbor as well as a right one. (Gal 1:10; 1Th 2:4). We must strive to please him only as it will be for his good-only, too, in obedience to the divine will.]

Fuente: Old and New Testaments Restoration Commentary

Rom 14:19, 1Co 9:19-22, 1Co 10:24, 1Co 10:33, 1Co 11:1, 1Co 13:5, Phi 2:4, Phi 2:5, Tit 2:9, Tit 2:10

Reciprocal: Mat 11:19 – came Mat 22:39 – neighbour Mar 6:34 – saw Rom 14:15 – now Rom 14:21 – good 1Co 10:23 – edify 1Co 14:3 – edification 2Co 4:5 – and Gal 1:10 – for if Gal 5:13 – but Eph 4:12 – the edifying Col 3:13 – Forbearing 1Th 5:11 – and edify Heb 10:24 – consider

Fuente: The Treasury of Scripture Knowledge

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Rom 15:2. Please his neighbor is to be accomplished by respecting his views on the matters discussed in the preceding chapter. This will have the effect of edifying him, or building him up in his service to the Lord. Such a result would be the opposite to that set forth by the comments at verse 16 of that chapter.

Fuente: Combined Bible Commentary

Rom 15:2. Let each one of us (weak as well as strong) please his neighbor for his good unto edification. His good, lit, the good, but it seems best to explain for his benefit. The last Phrase, unto edification, with a view to building him up in Christian character, defines more especially wherein this good consists.

Fuente: A Popular Commentary on the New Testament

Vv. 2, 3. Let every one of us please his neighbor in what is good to edification. For also Christ pleased not Himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell on me.

The , for, in the T. R., is certainly unauthentic: the asyndeton implies a more emphatic reproduction of the thought of Rom 15:1. The word every one seems to us to extend the exhortation to all the members of the church, weak or strong; it is as if it ran: Yes, let every one of us in general…

There are two ways of seeking to please our neighbor. In the one we are self-seeking; we seek to satisfy our interest or self-love. In the other, we seek the good of our neighbor himself. It is this latter way only which the apostle recommends: such is the force of the first clause: in good; for good, not from egoism. Then this abstract notion is positively determined by the second clause: to edification. The life of Paul was all through the realization of this precept; comp. 1 Cor. 10:33, 34.

Vv. 3. The example of Christ is to the believer the new law to be realized (Gal 6:2); hence the for also. If, as man, Christ had pleased Himself in the use of His liberty, or in the enjoyment of the rights and privileges which His own righteousness had acquired, what would have come of our salvation? But He had only one thought: to struggle for the destruction of sin, without concerning Himself about His own well-being, or sparing Himself even for an instant. In this bold and persevering struggle against our enemy, evil, He drew on Him the hatred of all God’s adversaries here below, so that the lamentation of the Psalmist, Psa 69:9, became as it were the motto of His life. In laboring thus for the glory of God and the salvation of men, He recoiled, as Isaiah had prophesied, neither before shame nor spitting. This certainly is the antipodes of pleasing ourselves. Psalms 69 applies only indirectly to the Messiah (Psa 69:5 : My sins are not hid); it describes the righteous Israelite suffering for the cause of God. But this is precisely the type of which Jesus was the supreme realization.

We need not say, with Meyer, that Paul adopts the saying of the Psalmist directly into his own text. It is more natural, seeing the total change of construction, like Grotius, to supply this idea: but he did as is written; comp. Joh 13:18.

Paul, Rom 15:1-2, had said us; it is difficult, indeed, to believe, that in writing these last sayings he could avoid thinking of his own apostolic life.

But divine succor is needed to enable us to follow this line of conduct unflinchingly; and this succor the believer finds only in the constant use of the Scriptures, and in the help of God which accompanies it (Rom 15:4-6).

Fuente: Godet Commentary (Luke, John, Romans and 1 Corinthians)

Let each one of us please his neighbor for that which is good, unto edifying.

Fuente: McGarvey and Pendleton Commentaries (New Testament)

2. Let each one of us please his neighbor in that which is good unto edification. This strikes the keynote of the gracious economy, adhering rigidly to everything good and avoiding the very appearance of evil, and everything conducive to edification. So fast as churches get away from God they depart from this precept, e. g., poor old Romanism holds her service in the old dead Latin language, so no one receives any edification. In a similar manner all the Protestant churches are going down in the track of wicked Catholicism, preaching in a highfalutin style on subjects alien to personal salvation and practical Christianity, and singing operatic songs and solos, so indistinct and screaming and drowned out with instrumental music as to impart no edification to the audience. We have no right to do anything in our worship which the people can not hear and understand to their spiritual edification.

Fuente: William Godbey’s Commentary on the New Testament

15:2 Let every one of us please [his] neighbour for [his] {b} good to edification.

(b) For his profit and edification.

Fuente: Geneva Bible Notes

All Christians, not just the strong, need to apply this principle of love. Paul was not saying that we should be "people pleasers" and do whatever anyone wants us to do simply because it will please them (cf. Gal 1:10; Gal 1:19; Eph 6:6; Col 3:22; 1Th 2:4). The goal of our behavior should be the other person’s welfare and spiritual edification (cf. 1Co 9:19-23). We should not please others rather than God, but we should please others rather than ourselves.

Fuente: Expository Notes of Dr. Constable (Old and New Testaments)